What Men Really Want - Do You Have It?
Do men give you the impression their heads are all over the place and they don't know what they really want? If they don't know, do you think you could ever figure it out? After all, if they don't know what they want, how are you supposed to try to give it to them? Read on as we try to solve this enigma.
If you asked any woman what a man wants, she'd probably answer sex.
Yeah that's true, but if all men want is sex, why aren't they hanging around you after you've given them some.
Could be that men want more than just sex.
If you're going out there super sexy, you're probably attracting a certain kind of man who only wants sex.
So once he's had what he wants, he moves on.
But what is your super sexy outfit telling the men who want more than just sex.
For the most part it simply tells them that you don't really have much else going on.
After all, if you did have something else going on, why would you be so eager (might read desperate) to flaunt your body the way you are? Try going out with your sexuality toned down a bit.
Then be ready to offer up everything else you have to the guy.
Like what? A guy who is interested in a real relationship will want to talk to you to try to figure you out.
He'll want to find out what kind of woman you are, but he'll also want to impress you with who he is.
Conversations are so vital at this stage of the game because this is how both of you will really learn about the other.
As you talk with him, know that men want to feel valued and validated by the woman they're with.
If you tend to put men down, you're shooting yourself in the foot.
Be positive and let him know you admire him.
Space is another thing to put on your list of the things men want.
Even if he's falling in love with you, even if he loves being with you, you have to leave him some time and space to himself.
Everyone wins; you need to have time to do your things with your friends; he has to have some time to himself so he can figure out all the emotions he's feeling; and the relationship, no matter how great things are going, needs room to breathe.
Now that you know what men want, go out there and show them you have what it takes.
If you asked any woman what a man wants, she'd probably answer sex.
Yeah that's true, but if all men want is sex, why aren't they hanging around you after you've given them some.
Could be that men want more than just sex.
If you're going out there super sexy, you're probably attracting a certain kind of man who only wants sex.
So once he's had what he wants, he moves on.
But what is your super sexy outfit telling the men who want more than just sex.
For the most part it simply tells them that you don't really have much else going on.
After all, if you did have something else going on, why would you be so eager (might read desperate) to flaunt your body the way you are? Try going out with your sexuality toned down a bit.
Then be ready to offer up everything else you have to the guy.
Like what? A guy who is interested in a real relationship will want to talk to you to try to figure you out.
He'll want to find out what kind of woman you are, but he'll also want to impress you with who he is.
Conversations are so vital at this stage of the game because this is how both of you will really learn about the other.
As you talk with him, know that men want to feel valued and validated by the woman they're with.
If you tend to put men down, you're shooting yourself in the foot.
Be positive and let him know you admire him.
Space is another thing to put on your list of the things men want.
Even if he's falling in love with you, even if he loves being with you, you have to leave him some time and space to himself.
Everyone wins; you need to have time to do your things with your friends; he has to have some time to himself so he can figure out all the emotions he's feeling; and the relationship, no matter how great things are going, needs room to breathe.
Now that you know what men want, go out there and show them you have what it takes.
