How to Deal With Relationship Issues - Insecurities
Everybody has insecurities.
It's part of being human.
However, having too much insecurities in a relationship will eventually lead it to its doom.
There are a lot of reasons why couples break-up and most commonly, it's because of lack of trust and being insecure.
Sure, everyone who's in a relationship all have fears and worries about things like why if things won't work or what if we're not loved as fiercely as we love our partners? The issue lies within us most of the time and it's more difficult to manage it.
So how do we exactly deal with relationship issue of insecurities to make our love lives healthier and happier? Start with yourself.
Did you love yourself enough before you decided to finally share that love with somebody? If not, then you better.
Having to deal with your bouts of insecurity will crack your relationship little by little.
Sometimes, there's a feeling of guilt or the feeling of being unworthy.
When you can't resolve it, you start blaming your partner instead, say they don't love you too much or worse, you start thinking that they're cheating you without even strong basis or proof to start accusing.
Insecurity can also root when you suddenly develop this intense uncontrollable fear of losing your partner.
Instead of finding ways to lessen it, you try to cover it up to make you look less scared, like thinking of cheating on them first, or nagging them 24 hours a day about their schedules, friends and other aspects of their lives that you're not necessarily involved.
Develop self-esteem, confidence and independence.
Remember that you deserve to be happy and loved.
No once can help you on this part by yourself.
Realize that your partner is with you because you are an amazing person and that you're lovable and worth caring for.
Worrying won't take you anymore so I suggest that instead of thinking too much about your fears and limitation, start appreciating the gift of love and passion that is give to you.
Nurture it and be thankful.
It's part of being human.
However, having too much insecurities in a relationship will eventually lead it to its doom.
There are a lot of reasons why couples break-up and most commonly, it's because of lack of trust and being insecure.
Sure, everyone who's in a relationship all have fears and worries about things like why if things won't work or what if we're not loved as fiercely as we love our partners? The issue lies within us most of the time and it's more difficult to manage it.
So how do we exactly deal with relationship issue of insecurities to make our love lives healthier and happier? Start with yourself.
Did you love yourself enough before you decided to finally share that love with somebody? If not, then you better.
Having to deal with your bouts of insecurity will crack your relationship little by little.
Sometimes, there's a feeling of guilt or the feeling of being unworthy.
When you can't resolve it, you start blaming your partner instead, say they don't love you too much or worse, you start thinking that they're cheating you without even strong basis or proof to start accusing.
Insecurity can also root when you suddenly develop this intense uncontrollable fear of losing your partner.
Instead of finding ways to lessen it, you try to cover it up to make you look less scared, like thinking of cheating on them first, or nagging them 24 hours a day about their schedules, friends and other aspects of their lives that you're not necessarily involved.
Develop self-esteem, confidence and independence.
Remember that you deserve to be happy and loved.
No once can help you on this part by yourself.
Realize that your partner is with you because you are an amazing person and that you're lovable and worth caring for.
Worrying won't take you anymore so I suggest that instead of thinking too much about your fears and limitation, start appreciating the gift of love and passion that is give to you.
Nurture it and be thankful.
