Infidelity is a great deal breaker in relationships. It often leads to permanent separation because of the undeniably big damage that it can bring to a relationship. But whether you decide to part ways or continue your relationship, you will need the following tips on moving on after infidelity:

• Remember that time can't heal your broken heart; but it's what you do with time that does all the healing. So stop doing things that can remind you of what happened.
• Don't put too much pressure on yourself. Allow yourself to grieve. Release the pain by crying your heart out. It would be a lot better if you can cry with a confidant. That someone may be a friend who can calm and cheer you up without being judgmental.
• Accept what happened and forgive. Learn to understand why it happened. It is only through understanding things that you may be able to forgive. Forgiveness is giving freedom, to you and to your partner. The pain infidelity has brought you may be inevitable, but you can choose not to suffer forever.
• Learn from your mistakes. Since you already know why it happened, learn from it. If you are pursuing a new love, or if you decide to give your present relationship another chance, see to it that you will no longer repeat those mistakes.
• Pamper yourself and try to look good. If you're sad, you should not tolerate yourself to not being conscious about your appearance. The infidelity will surely lower your self esteem but by dressing up and making yourself look good, it can help you feel a lot better.
• Keep your head up. Don't lose hope and never give up on love. Have faith that there's a golden sunshine after this storm that you are going through. Pray and continue your life by appreciating things that you can still be grateful of.

Healing may really take a while but just be patient and you will get through it. The incident may even lead you to have a stronger foundation and to be more careful next time.