Meet Women Here
If you're looking for a one night stand, go to a bar.
In order meet women for long term relationships you have to go to places and events they enjoy.
Think about it, guys.
You want to meet a woman for more than just a quick hook up.
You are looking for Miss Right, or at least Miss Maybe.
If you're looking for a long term relationship, DON'T expect to find it in a bar where the women are as predatory as the men.
A lot of men don't like to consider ever doing what I'm about to suggest but if you can do it, you'll be miles toward your goal of finding a girlfriend.
The advice is: think like a woman.
It's not easy for men to do this and some won't even try, but reflect on this for a moment, if you were hunting deer, wouldn't it make sense to think like a deer? To know where they go? To understand what will attract them or frighten them away? Okay then, let's look at this thing from a woman's point of view.
Who do they trust and where are they likely to be the most receptive to meeting someone new? That's the atmosphere in which you want to meet, someplace she's comfortable and open.
Here's a clue, that place is not in the crosswalk while you're honking your horn and making kissing sounds in her direction.
1) With friends or family Technically, this could be anywhere.
One great thing many guys refuse to do is tell their friends or family they would like to meet a nice girl.
They're afraid of being "fixed up.
" Don't be.
People, particularly female people, would like to see you meet a nice girl and will help you do it.
Talk to your sister and your female friends.
Let them know the type of girl you'd like to meet.
Suddenly you'll find yourself being invited to parties, to dinner, and to other social events where there just happens to be a nice, unattached young lady who is seeking the same thing you are.
Will she be the one? Who knows.
Be on your best behavior, charming and polite and the worst case scenario is you'll have a nice dinner and never see her again.
2) College This is a no brainer if you happen to be in school, but what if you're not? Consider an evening or Saturday class at the local community college.
They have all kinds of classes you might be interested in and they aren't all academic.
There are sports like archery and golf, crafts, cooking, etc.
People of all ages take these classes and you're more likely to meet someone who shares your interests.
Worst case scenario - you learn about something you're interested in.
3) Dancing classes A dancing class, even at a club, is different from just picking up a woman at a club.
Many clubs have classes such as salsa or country depending on the type of club.
What's good about these is women love to dance and they need partners to do it.
It gives you a chance to touch and hold her in a socially acceptable manner and to talk between numbers.
Worst case scenario - you become a better dancer.
4) Restaurants No, don't accost patrons of restaurants.
If you're going to eat out anyway, try different restaurants and check out the waitresses.
When you find a waitress you particularly like, start eating there once or twice a week.
Talk to her, use her name.
Tip her well but not too well.
You want her to think you're generous but not that you're trying to buy her.
After a few meals and when you feel like you're getting along well, ask her out for a cup of coffee after work.
By the way, it's good to learn as early as possible if she's already attached.
Worst case scenario - you have a few good meals and some friendly conversation.
5) Networking Groups I'm not talking about singles groups.
There are other types of networking such as the chamber of commerce.
There are business networking groups, real estate networking groups, insurance networking groups, etc.
Get involved, volunteer time and meet other people with interests common to yours.
Don't go with just the idea of meeting women, you'll be spotted as a phony.
Go with the intention of helping the group and you'll be perceived as a valuable, contributing member.
Choose a group with more than a couple dozen members and you might very likely find a woman worth meeting.
Worst case scenario - you give something back to your community and maybe get some business out of the deal.
You can see from these examples, I'm suggesting meeting women in their natural environment, in places they would naturally feel comfortable.
These are places where talking to women would be natural and expected of you.
They won't be on the defensive right from the get go.
When you can start a casual conversation with a women who shares common interests, you're half way home.
In order meet women for long term relationships you have to go to places and events they enjoy.
Think about it, guys.
You want to meet a woman for more than just a quick hook up.
You are looking for Miss Right, or at least Miss Maybe.
If you're looking for a long term relationship, DON'T expect to find it in a bar where the women are as predatory as the men.
A lot of men don't like to consider ever doing what I'm about to suggest but if you can do it, you'll be miles toward your goal of finding a girlfriend.
The advice is: think like a woman.
It's not easy for men to do this and some won't even try, but reflect on this for a moment, if you were hunting deer, wouldn't it make sense to think like a deer? To know where they go? To understand what will attract them or frighten them away? Okay then, let's look at this thing from a woman's point of view.
Who do they trust and where are they likely to be the most receptive to meeting someone new? That's the atmosphere in which you want to meet, someplace she's comfortable and open.
Here's a clue, that place is not in the crosswalk while you're honking your horn and making kissing sounds in her direction.
1) With friends or family Technically, this could be anywhere.
One great thing many guys refuse to do is tell their friends or family they would like to meet a nice girl.
They're afraid of being "fixed up.
" Don't be.
People, particularly female people, would like to see you meet a nice girl and will help you do it.
Talk to your sister and your female friends.
Let them know the type of girl you'd like to meet.
Suddenly you'll find yourself being invited to parties, to dinner, and to other social events where there just happens to be a nice, unattached young lady who is seeking the same thing you are.
Will she be the one? Who knows.
Be on your best behavior, charming and polite and the worst case scenario is you'll have a nice dinner and never see her again.
2) College This is a no brainer if you happen to be in school, but what if you're not? Consider an evening or Saturday class at the local community college.
They have all kinds of classes you might be interested in and they aren't all academic.
There are sports like archery and golf, crafts, cooking, etc.
People of all ages take these classes and you're more likely to meet someone who shares your interests.
Worst case scenario - you learn about something you're interested in.
3) Dancing classes A dancing class, even at a club, is different from just picking up a woman at a club.
Many clubs have classes such as salsa or country depending on the type of club.
What's good about these is women love to dance and they need partners to do it.
It gives you a chance to touch and hold her in a socially acceptable manner and to talk between numbers.
Worst case scenario - you become a better dancer.
4) Restaurants No, don't accost patrons of restaurants.
If you're going to eat out anyway, try different restaurants and check out the waitresses.
When you find a waitress you particularly like, start eating there once or twice a week.
Talk to her, use her name.
Tip her well but not too well.
You want her to think you're generous but not that you're trying to buy her.
After a few meals and when you feel like you're getting along well, ask her out for a cup of coffee after work.
By the way, it's good to learn as early as possible if she's already attached.
Worst case scenario - you have a few good meals and some friendly conversation.
5) Networking Groups I'm not talking about singles groups.
There are other types of networking such as the chamber of commerce.
There are business networking groups, real estate networking groups, insurance networking groups, etc.
Get involved, volunteer time and meet other people with interests common to yours.
Don't go with just the idea of meeting women, you'll be spotted as a phony.
Go with the intention of helping the group and you'll be perceived as a valuable, contributing member.
Choose a group with more than a couple dozen members and you might very likely find a woman worth meeting.
Worst case scenario - you give something back to your community and maybe get some business out of the deal.
You can see from these examples, I'm suggesting meeting women in their natural environment, in places they would naturally feel comfortable.
These are places where talking to women would be natural and expected of you.
They won't be on the defensive right from the get go.
When you can start a casual conversation with a women who shares common interests, you're half way home.
