One of the most prevalent things women do is try to rush things. We tend to want to know "where do we stand as a possible couple, where is this going, how does he feel, what's he thinking." Unless you have some dire urgency to know now, why not enjoy this sweet and tender part of the relationship, when you're both discovering each other, enjoying learning new things, tentatively taking the next step. What I've noticed is that women are so focused on "where is this going," that they miss out on what's happening right now. And right now is the only place life happens. If we're somewhere else, we're missing out on life.

Learn the secrets about men in my book, Men Made Easy and start practicing using them, begin to develop a stronger sense of Feminine Grace, and as you begin to enjoy being a woman more and more, he will notice. If you focus on being beautiful in all your interactions with him, let him know how he enhances your life, how much you appreciate the man he is…you will become indispensable to his sense of well-being and he will get to a point where he can't stand the thought of not being with you. It could turn out he's not the right one for you, or not ready for what you want, but in the meantime, you can be learning how to use my secrets about men. It's all good…

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