How To Let Him Do The Chasing - Gain The Upper Hand By Making Your Boyfriend Chase You
Are you tired of being the one who always has to do the pursuing when you meet someone you like? Wouldn't you like to be up in front for a change and let him do the chasing? Isn't it supposed to be the guy who does the chasing and the woman who's supposed to let herself be caught anyway? If you're tired of the situation maybe it's time you turned the tables and let him do the chasing.
Here's how you can make it happen.
Choose Your "Chaser" Carefully First of all, when you're looking the field over, don't pick the guy that all the girls are falling all over.
He has it so easy that he probably won't be bothered with a girl who makes him work.
Instead, look for the guy who kind of sits back and looks things over.
He's the one by himself at a table most of the evening.
While his friends are flirting with as many girls as they can, he hangs back.
This is not a guy who lacks confidence.
This is a guy who stands out from the crowd and doesn't need to have a woman constantly at his side to feel like a real man.
This is a man worth pursuing.
But you're not going to chase him.
You're going to let him do the chasing.
How To Signal The Chase All you have to do is initiate the contact.
It could be as subtle as walking by on your way back to your table and making eye contact.
Before you break this eye contact, give him an appraising look and a little half-smile and then keep going.
Or you could use the more in your face approach like sitting down beside him for a minute and going through the, you look familiar routine.
Of course, you'll realize that you don't know him after all and apologize by saying, too bad.
Then leave.
Either of these approaches should get him curious enough to take the next step and then the chase is on.
But once he takes the bait, don't fall all over him.
You need to be kind of cool, but friendly enough that asks if he can buy you a drink, or better yet, for your phone number.
Make The Chase As Exciting As You Can To keep him chasing you, you have to lead him along.
That's not the same as leading him on, by the way.
You want him to ask you out, but you don't want to appear too eager.
So perhaps you're going to be busy for Friday night when he calls, but you might suggest getting together Sunday evening instead.
Be sure to give him options.
At this point it's not necessary to play hard to get.
You only need to resort to that if you find he's losing interest and needs to be reeled back in.
Just make sure that when you let him do the chasing, he also has the opportunity to catch you at some point because that's what makes the chase so much fun.
Want to learn more about making men chase you, catch you, and keep you? Then I'd love to help you!
Here's how you can make it happen.
Choose Your "Chaser" Carefully First of all, when you're looking the field over, don't pick the guy that all the girls are falling all over.
He has it so easy that he probably won't be bothered with a girl who makes him work.
Instead, look for the guy who kind of sits back and looks things over.
He's the one by himself at a table most of the evening.
While his friends are flirting with as many girls as they can, he hangs back.
This is not a guy who lacks confidence.
This is a guy who stands out from the crowd and doesn't need to have a woman constantly at his side to feel like a real man.
This is a man worth pursuing.
But you're not going to chase him.
You're going to let him do the chasing.
How To Signal The Chase All you have to do is initiate the contact.
It could be as subtle as walking by on your way back to your table and making eye contact.
Before you break this eye contact, give him an appraising look and a little half-smile and then keep going.
Or you could use the more in your face approach like sitting down beside him for a minute and going through the, you look familiar routine.
Of course, you'll realize that you don't know him after all and apologize by saying, too bad.
Then leave.
Either of these approaches should get him curious enough to take the next step and then the chase is on.
But once he takes the bait, don't fall all over him.
You need to be kind of cool, but friendly enough that asks if he can buy you a drink, or better yet, for your phone number.
Make The Chase As Exciting As You Can To keep him chasing you, you have to lead him along.
That's not the same as leading him on, by the way.
You want him to ask you out, but you don't want to appear too eager.
So perhaps you're going to be busy for Friday night when he calls, but you might suggest getting together Sunday evening instead.
Be sure to give him options.
At this point it's not necessary to play hard to get.
You only need to resort to that if you find he's losing interest and needs to be reeled back in.
Just make sure that when you let him do the chasing, he also has the opportunity to catch you at some point because that's what makes the chase so much fun.
Want to learn more about making men chase you, catch you, and keep you? Then I'd love to help you!
