Your girlfriend broke up with you and you want her back.
But she seems to be enjoying herself now that you are out of her life.
So how do you get your girlfriend to want you back? It is imperative that you should know precisely what went wrong and what she wants from a relationship.
The slightest mistake on your part could ruin your chances of getting her back.
To get your ex-girlfriend to want you back, here are some pointers on what not to do.

• Don't call her constantly or send her text messages immediately after the break- up.
  Give her some time to cool off her anger and frustrations.
  Give her some breathing space to think things over and evaluate you and your past relationship.
  
• Don't bea broken record saying "I love you" and you can't live without her again and again.
  It makes you look miserable and insincere.
  
• Don't try to persuade her that you are going to change and that the relationship will be different this time around.
  Words like that don't mean anything.
  You have to prove to her that you have changed.
  
• Don't make her feel sorry for you by crying and begging for forgiveness or for another chance.
  It makes you look desperate and weak.
  That is the biggest turn off.
  
• Don't try to reason out with her using logic and deductions.
  You will just irritate her with your reasoning and give her a headache with your logic.
  Worse, still may laugh at your weak reasons and insult your intelligence.
  
• Don't argue with her or put her on a guilt trip.
  Putting the blame on yourself or on her for the break up will put her on the defensive and will result in a longer and more violent argument.
  
• Don't be passive and afraid to make a move.
  The fear of making things worse will make things worse for you.
  Your chance to get your ex-girlfriend to want you back will pass and become obsolete and she will find someone else while you are shaking with your fear of making a false move.