After a very long relationship, you suddenly find out that your lover doesn't want you anymore.
He or she wants out from the relationship? Your pleas fall on deaf ears and now your ex is avoiding you.
How do you pull your ex back when you are being avoided? Get a grip.
When your ex is ignoring you despite that you made attempts to win his or her feelings back, then something must be wrong with what you are doing.
Get a grip.
Find out what's causing him to give you cold shoulders and then find the solution.
If your ex hates you for hovering at him or her every time, don't you think it is about time that you give your ex some room to breathe? Your ex will eventually notice why you suddenly gone indifferent to him or her.
This might also make your ex miss your hovering and checking up on him or her even if he or she will not admit it.
Learn from your mistakes.
So you've learned what he does not like about you.
At this point, you've probably learn a lesson in your break-up.
Correct your mistakes and learn from them to empower your life and personality.
Time heals all wounds...
including yours.
Both of you needs space to think things through.
You are not the only one hurting here.
So give your ex some time.
Be patient.
Reintroduce your new self to your ex.
Arrange a meeting for you and your ex and catch up on the old times.
By this time, you have changed some of your nasty attitudes that your ex hated.
Let him see the new you.
If all works, he might get interested at you again.