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Does He Love You?

Does He Love You?

The nastiest sure thing in life is unrequited love. You love him, he doesn't love you and the process of finding out is excruciating. You look for hidden meaning in every statement and innocent gesture and your whole life becomes a massive intense decoding operation. If only there existed a reference guide or manual for this kind of thing. It would at least help you understand where you stand with him.The following signs can help you manage the risk of going through an emotional roller coaster.

His phone calls

It is well known that men generally dislike chatting over the phone. He will call you only for a clear and definite reason. Under normal circumstances men avoid telephone conversations but when in love, they would be willing to undergo this torture. If he keeps calling to say hallo and awkward conversation, then he is in love.

He likes your friends

He may not really be crazy about them but he is pretending his best. He is careful to say good things about even those friends he cannot stand. He will put himself through this just to win your affection. He may want to be around you and your friends to please you and maybe get some crucial information about you. This is a sign that he cares a lot about you.

He talks about you to his friends

Men talk to their friends about their acquaintances all the time. This does not mean they are in love with them. When he starts telling his friends about every aspect of your life, then you may have stolen his heart. In his conversations he will find ways to bring your name into the discussion.

He makes the dates

When a man is in love he will want to know when he is will be seeing you next. It is almost as if he is not able to get enough of you. He will be the one proposing when you should meet again. This is yet another encouraging sign for you.

He makes your interests his own.

When a man really likes you he will begin to get involved in the activities that he knows you enjoy. These could be gardening, leisure walks or even a hobby. A man in love will strive to understand what makes the object of his affection happy.

He keeps time

If he always shows up for your dates on time, it means that he is working hard to gain your affection. A man who is not keen on you will not bother to plan for your meetings. He may show up late now and then as he may have better things to do.

He does not talk about past relationships.

A man who is working hard to gain your love will try to give the impression that you are the best he has ever had. He will therefore bury his past, great or bad to focus on what he now has.
So the above indicators should help you separate a friendship from a serious relationship.

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Paul B.

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