Avoid Having Sex With Your Ex While Trying to Get Her Or Him Back!
One of the worst nightmares you can create for yourself is rebuilding a relationship based solely on sex! You want the respect, the admiration of your ex.
You certainly do not want to be treated like a sex toy! You are an admirable person, with needs beyond the bedroom! The first favor you can do for yourself in a break-up is to avoid sex while getting your ex back! You will feel better about yourself and your ex will respect and may even admire your decision! Of course, there is pleasure in the act of sex.
And you may just be feeling down enough that you think a short tryst with your ex may be just the thing to cheer you up! Try to remember that, while sex is pleasure, this may be all that your ex is seeking.
Are you willing to settle for that type of relationship? One in which he or she only comes to you seeking pleasure? There is far more to a relationship and you definitely do not want to settle for this single aspect! Sex should be a complicated aspect of your relationship.
Instead of meeting only physical hunger, sex should also be fulfilling emotionally and some say, spiritually.
Satisfying the physical should only be one tiny aspect of the sexual experience.
Having sex with your ex sets you up for an emotional train wreck! People can (and often do) have sex with others they care nothing about! Do not let this be you! You want everything your ex has to offer! You do not need to settle for satisfying only one need, one small aspect of your relationship.
Your feelings may get out of control over time.
You might start to believe your ex wants you back when that is the furthest thing on your ex-partner's mind! Getting your ex back takes a lot of hard work on both of your parts! Sex, should, only have been one aspect of your relationship.
If your relationship was based entirely on sex the partnership might have been a mistake to begin with! Take this time to assess your needs and wants from a relationship.
Did you feel fulfilled? Did your ex partner with you in your dreams and aspirations? These are things that a healthy emotional relationship are built on, not simply physical supply and demand.
You certainly do not want to be treated like a sex toy! You are an admirable person, with needs beyond the bedroom! The first favor you can do for yourself in a break-up is to avoid sex while getting your ex back! You will feel better about yourself and your ex will respect and may even admire your decision! Of course, there is pleasure in the act of sex.
And you may just be feeling down enough that you think a short tryst with your ex may be just the thing to cheer you up! Try to remember that, while sex is pleasure, this may be all that your ex is seeking.
Are you willing to settle for that type of relationship? One in which he or she only comes to you seeking pleasure? There is far more to a relationship and you definitely do not want to settle for this single aspect! Sex should be a complicated aspect of your relationship.
Instead of meeting only physical hunger, sex should also be fulfilling emotionally and some say, spiritually.
Satisfying the physical should only be one tiny aspect of the sexual experience.
Having sex with your ex sets you up for an emotional train wreck! People can (and often do) have sex with others they care nothing about! Do not let this be you! You want everything your ex has to offer! You do not need to settle for satisfying only one need, one small aspect of your relationship.
Your feelings may get out of control over time.
You might start to believe your ex wants you back when that is the furthest thing on your ex-partner's mind! Getting your ex back takes a lot of hard work on both of your parts! Sex, should, only have been one aspect of your relationship.
If your relationship was based entirely on sex the partnership might have been a mistake to begin with! Take this time to assess your needs and wants from a relationship.
Did you feel fulfilled? Did your ex partner with you in your dreams and aspirations? These are things that a healthy emotional relationship are built on, not simply physical supply and demand.
