Erectile dysfunction is frequently viewed one-sidedly.
True, it is a male problem and these are men who suffer most and first.
However, in a relationship any sexual problem of one partner cannot but affect the other.
Therefore, women's sufferings should also be taken into consideration.
The thing is that if a man has got problems with erection, he gets reserved and detached without any explanations; while women tend to interpret such behavior wrongly.
She starts thinking that she is the reason of it, that she is no longer beautiful and desired and this makes her desperate and miserable.
Nowadays erectile dysfunction is not a rare condition.
There are a lot of men who suffer from it due to various reasons.
In medical terms ED means inability to achieve and/or maintain erection for a proper intercourse.
Generally, the condition can be of physical or emotional nature and most men tend to have such a problem at least once in life.
It can happen quite unexpectedly as well and, provided that things do not get back to normal after a while, is able to become a pretty bad challenge for a relationship.
When it comes to women, they do not get ill, of course, in physical sense.
However, they get their share of trouble emotionally.
It has been researched that there are a lot of women who do not have adequate sex education and therefore they tend to aggravate the situation by unnecessary tension and even hysterics.
The most frequent presupposition that a woman tends to make when she sees her partner getting detached is that he has got an affair.
The best way out here for a man is to make an effort and try to explain what the real problem is.
Otherwise, this absence of communication is able to lead a couple even into worse misunderstanding, frustration and anger for each other.
Unless they talk openly, women will either withdraw or become even more persistent in trying to know the truth.
Both variants are no good as long as a man is already is frustrated and despite of the desire to detach he needs understanding and mild support.
There is also no real use in a woman's attempts to become hyper sexual as, if this does not work, the whole situation will shift from bad to worse.
Thus, what is the best to be done? The most beneficial way out for a woman in such a situation is to become a friend to her partner.
A woman should understand that she is not rejected and that such behavior of her partner does not indicate that she has lost her beauty and appeal.
Conversely, a man has got a desire but is incapable of fulfilling the intercourse and, thus, is very much frustrated.
Consequently, there is no sense pressing his with unremitting inquires about his feelings and questioning his loyalty.
A woman should make every effort to make him feel secure and appreciated no matter what.
She should also be wise and mildly persistent and be able to convince a man in the necessity of professional consultation (provided it is really needed).
You cannot have fulfilling sex life with the problems that your partner experiences but you can now experiment freely.
Sexual games and cuddling is a great option and there are so many other ways to get pleasure and feel sexual.
The condition is nowadays successfully treated but both partners should understand that it cannot be resolved without mutual desire and effort from both sides.
A man needs support and understanding and a woman's role here is crucial.
To cap it all, partners should understand that communication is important.
Men should get it clear that without being open about their fears and despair their women will be unable to help and support.
Detachment and saying that everything is all right will only make a woman nervous and suspicious in vain.
Women should be more relaxed and do not see the trouble where it does not exist and stay close and supportive.
Mutual efforts will help to solve the problem and sex life will get to normal and will become even hotter and spicier after a break.