How To Turn Your Best Friend Into Your Boyfriend
Have you experienced the frustration of falling for the guy who's your best friend? Would you like to know how to turn your best friend into your boyfriend without destroying the friendship part of your relationship? Do you feel trapped in a one-of-the-guys relationship and wonder how to change that? The biggest problem you face is getting him to see you in a different light.
If you are able to do that, it's going to be quite possible to turn your best friend into your boyfriend.
This is what you need to do.
Make some very subtle changes in the relationship you already share with him.
You don't want to wave a red flag at him.
Instead you want him to start wondering what's different.
Make point of being around more than usual and being a part of more things he's interested in.
Go watch him play a game and compliment him on his performance.
You may be considered one of the guys by the group he's part of.
Start to treat him in a slightly different way than you do the other guys in the group.
You want him to notice that you're becoming a closer friend than you used to be.
Dress differently than you normally would so he takes notice.
You'll know you're getting through to him, if he starts to really look at you.
When he does notice, smile and make eye contact with him.
Then hold that eye contact for a beat longer.
If he starts to talk about a girl he likes or is dating, become noticeably quieter.
If he asks what's wrong or what you think he should do, tell him you don't want to think about him going out with other girls.
This will really get his attention and make him think of you differently.
By now he should be aware that things have changed.
If you want to turn your best friend into your boyfriend, it's time to up the stakes.
This is a good time to start flirting with him.
Make it obvious but not too obvious.
He's only human, so chances are he'll start flirting with you in return.
One great strategy is to get close enough to lean over and touch him on the arm or shoulder.
Once you have his attention, come out with a slightly outrageous flirty remark.
Then walk away but look back over your shoulder and smile but keep walking.
This will put the ball squarely in his court.
You've already got an important piece of the relationship puzzle in place if you can turn your best friend into your boyfriend.
And since you're already best friends, things can only get better from there.
If you are able to do that, it's going to be quite possible to turn your best friend into your boyfriend.
This is what you need to do.
Make some very subtle changes in the relationship you already share with him.
You don't want to wave a red flag at him.
Instead you want him to start wondering what's different.
Make point of being around more than usual and being a part of more things he's interested in.
Go watch him play a game and compliment him on his performance.
You may be considered one of the guys by the group he's part of.
Start to treat him in a slightly different way than you do the other guys in the group.
You want him to notice that you're becoming a closer friend than you used to be.
Dress differently than you normally would so he takes notice.
You'll know you're getting through to him, if he starts to really look at you.
When he does notice, smile and make eye contact with him.
Then hold that eye contact for a beat longer.
If he starts to talk about a girl he likes or is dating, become noticeably quieter.
If he asks what's wrong or what you think he should do, tell him you don't want to think about him going out with other girls.
This will really get his attention and make him think of you differently.
By now he should be aware that things have changed.
If you want to turn your best friend into your boyfriend, it's time to up the stakes.
This is a good time to start flirting with him.
Make it obvious but not too obvious.
He's only human, so chances are he'll start flirting with you in return.
One great strategy is to get close enough to lean over and touch him on the arm or shoulder.
Once you have his attention, come out with a slightly outrageous flirty remark.
Then walk away but look back over your shoulder and smile but keep walking.
This will put the ball squarely in his court.
You've already got an important piece of the relationship puzzle in place if you can turn your best friend into your boyfriend.
And since you're already best friends, things can only get better from there.
