One of the worst things to go through is a breakup; but even worse is to ruin all of your chances after the breakup without meaning to.
You see, when we lose the thing we love, we go through high emotional roller coasters that cause us to suddenly act out desperately to get it back.
In all of this pain you have, you are doing things that will ultimately make you lose your ex forever.
Here is what you must avoid if you want to get your ex back...
Being desperate- This will entirely ruin your chances of getting your ex back.
What this means is that you act desperate by acting as if you cannot live without your ex.
This is a turn off, as no one wants that expectation on them, that they should be responsible for keeping you alive and entertaining your life.
Arguing with your ex- If you argue with your ex, stop now.
He/she does not want to hear that they are always wrong, and no one wants to constantly be blamed for everything that ever took place.
On top of that, when you argue you force your ex to come up with counter-arguments which only assert in their mind that you are wrong since they then look for proof to prove you wrong.
Constantly bothering your ex- If you are always calling him/her every chance you get; they will feel like you do not understand the meaning of space.
They will likely turn off their phone and avoid you just to get some space.
Giving space is the best thing you can do right now, so that you do not come across as desperate.