How to Attract Women - Overcoming the Fear of Women
Do you have a fear of women? It's okay if you do, you might be surprised at how many guys have this fear, at least to some extent.
This is something that most men are going to keep a secret tucked away in their private little vault and never share with anyone.
It may stem from all kinds of things, from bad experiences with women, to not having enough experience of women.
The problem is, if you always keep it hidden and do nothing about it, it will severely limit your potential to actually attract women.
Have you ever seen a guy who was with a woman who was just plain awful to him? I mean, like screaming at him, bossing him around, or sleeping with other guys and not caring about what it did to him? Most of those guys have a fear of women and that is why they put up with those kinds of situations.
More often than not, the fear is that they will not be able to get a woman, so they just put up with the one that they do get.
And then there are the ones that never really get much traction at all when it comes to dating.
This fear of women usually has more to do with the fact that they are afraid that they will get rejected, they are afraid of how it will feel or the embarrassment that comes with it, and that keeps them from every making the move.
Regardless of why the fear is there, or what it really stems from, one thing is clear.
You HAVE to be able to get over the fear of women if you want to have any kind of dating success at all.
So, how do you do it? If your fear has to do with approaching women, or in the possibility of getting rejected, then what you need most is the combination of experience and confidence.
You need the experience to know deep down that most of the fear is actually irrational and to know that some women will respond very nicely to you.
And you need to confidence to be able to make the first move.
To gain the experience, it's simple, but you can't be shy about it.
You have to just get used to spending time with women and talking to them.
You don't have to be starting conversations just to try and get dates if that seems to put the pressure on you, all you have to do is get some conversation going so that it becomes just a normal thing for you to talk to women.
And to get the confidence, you have to start getting some positive feedback from women.
This does not mean that you need to necessarily get dates, although that is a definite plus, it means that you need to seem positive response, be it laughter, a smile, or some flirting back from a woman you are talking to.
The biggest takeaway that you need if you want to get over the fear of women is...
It only goes away when you actually begin to interact with women.
It won't go away from just reading things about dating, it won't go away from just trying to have a positive attitude.
It goes away once you become used to dealing with women on a daily basis and you start to get positive responses from them.
This is something that most men are going to keep a secret tucked away in their private little vault and never share with anyone.
It may stem from all kinds of things, from bad experiences with women, to not having enough experience of women.
The problem is, if you always keep it hidden and do nothing about it, it will severely limit your potential to actually attract women.
Have you ever seen a guy who was with a woman who was just plain awful to him? I mean, like screaming at him, bossing him around, or sleeping with other guys and not caring about what it did to him? Most of those guys have a fear of women and that is why they put up with those kinds of situations.
More often than not, the fear is that they will not be able to get a woman, so they just put up with the one that they do get.
And then there are the ones that never really get much traction at all when it comes to dating.
This fear of women usually has more to do with the fact that they are afraid that they will get rejected, they are afraid of how it will feel or the embarrassment that comes with it, and that keeps them from every making the move.
Regardless of why the fear is there, or what it really stems from, one thing is clear.
You HAVE to be able to get over the fear of women if you want to have any kind of dating success at all.
So, how do you do it? If your fear has to do with approaching women, or in the possibility of getting rejected, then what you need most is the combination of experience and confidence.
You need the experience to know deep down that most of the fear is actually irrational and to know that some women will respond very nicely to you.
And you need to confidence to be able to make the first move.
To gain the experience, it's simple, but you can't be shy about it.
You have to just get used to spending time with women and talking to them.
You don't have to be starting conversations just to try and get dates if that seems to put the pressure on you, all you have to do is get some conversation going so that it becomes just a normal thing for you to talk to women.
And to get the confidence, you have to start getting some positive feedback from women.
This does not mean that you need to necessarily get dates, although that is a definite plus, it means that you need to seem positive response, be it laughter, a smile, or some flirting back from a woman you are talking to.
The biggest takeaway that you need if you want to get over the fear of women is...
It only goes away when you actually begin to interact with women.
It won't go away from just reading things about dating, it won't go away from just trying to have a positive attitude.
It goes away once you become used to dealing with women on a daily basis and you start to get positive responses from them.
