How To Get Your Girlfriend Back - 4 Tips To Help You Attract Her Back
Most guys when they try to figure out how to get a girlfriend back will start off on the wrong foot and if you start off wrong, how do you expect to end up getting the result that you want? It's probably not going to happen, and you probably are going to end up more frustrated than ever. See, the problem is, most guys do not try to attract back their ex girlfriend, they try hard to convince her that she should give them a second chance.
And that is what starts most guys off on the wrong foot. You don't want to try and pursue your ex girlfriend with the idea that somehow, some way you are going to be able to convince her that you really are the one. Instead, you have to work on building up her attraction towards you again so that she wants to get back with you. That is how you end up with the path of least resistance to repairing a relationship.
Here are 4 tips on how to win your girlfriend back that you need to know:
1. You have to work on making yourself appear fresh in her eyes.
If your ex girlfriend always sees you the same way that she did when things just did not work out, then she will always assume that they are not going to work out. A simple work around on this is, to make yourself appear 'fresh' in her eyes. Give yourself a little update to your appearance. Do something to show that you are not the same guy that things did not work out for her with.
2. You have to be careful that you don't become a 'stalker' like so many ex boyfriend's do.
A lot of guys when they feel like they just really need to be with their ex girlfriend will try and find any way that they can be around her, any way that they can talk to her or just hear her voice. And when they do this, they start to come off like that ex boyfriend that no woman wants to have to deal with. You have to make sure that you do NOT tread into this territory if you want to get your girlfriend back.
3. She needs to come to the conclusion that she wants to get back together as well.
The problem when you try to convince an ex girlfriend that she should take you back is, it is a one sided argument. It's what you want and it does not take into account what she wants. You need to make her feel like she wants to get back together and to do this, you have to work on making her find you almost irresistible.
4. You need to be prepared with a proven plan to get your girlfriend back.
Calling her up, trying to run into her out in public, these are not the things that a man with a plan will do to win back his girlfriend. You need to have a plan. Of course at some point you are going to have to contact her, but the way that most guys go about it is so random that it just does not have any chance of working out at all.
And that is what starts most guys off on the wrong foot. You don't want to try and pursue your ex girlfriend with the idea that somehow, some way you are going to be able to convince her that you really are the one. Instead, you have to work on building up her attraction towards you again so that she wants to get back with you. That is how you end up with the path of least resistance to repairing a relationship.
Here are 4 tips on how to win your girlfriend back that you need to know:
1. You have to work on making yourself appear fresh in her eyes.
If your ex girlfriend always sees you the same way that she did when things just did not work out, then she will always assume that they are not going to work out. A simple work around on this is, to make yourself appear 'fresh' in her eyes. Give yourself a little update to your appearance. Do something to show that you are not the same guy that things did not work out for her with.
2. You have to be careful that you don't become a 'stalker' like so many ex boyfriend's do.
A lot of guys when they feel like they just really need to be with their ex girlfriend will try and find any way that they can be around her, any way that they can talk to her or just hear her voice. And when they do this, they start to come off like that ex boyfriend that no woman wants to have to deal with. You have to make sure that you do NOT tread into this territory if you want to get your girlfriend back.
3. She needs to come to the conclusion that she wants to get back together as well.
The problem when you try to convince an ex girlfriend that she should take you back is, it is a one sided argument. It's what you want and it does not take into account what she wants. You need to make her feel like she wants to get back together and to do this, you have to work on making her find you almost irresistible.
4. You need to be prepared with a proven plan to get your girlfriend back.
Calling her up, trying to run into her out in public, these are not the things that a man with a plan will do to win back his girlfriend. You need to have a plan. Of course at some point you are going to have to contact her, but the way that most guys go about it is so random that it just does not have any chance of working out at all.
