Most men hate to admit it, but they have trouble getting to first base with women.
Approaching a woman for the first time is hard, you're afraid she'll shoot you down.
If you worry less about rejection and more about connection, you'll have a lot more success.
We hope the following tips will help.
If you can't get a second date, you're probably making the same mistakes over and over.
Think about what you're doing and when that first date starts to go wrong.
She had some interest or you wouldn't have gotten the first date.
Most of the tips we're offering are plain common sense.
Think about what you want from a date and try to consider it from a woman's perspective.
Men and woman are often seeking the same thing from different angles.
Be A Man If you are unsure of yourself when you approach a woman, it shows.
A lack of self confidence will not serve you well with woman.
On the other hand, arrogance will nearly always result in a negative response.
If every sentence out of your mouth starts with I, you have the wrong attitude.
Ask questions, compliment her and make the conversation about her.
Confidence is good, but if you are so busy talking about what a great catch you are, a woman is going to wonder why you have to brag.
Show your interest in the lady.
Once you have exchanged names, tell her why you approached her and not someone else.
Don't make comments about her body parts, keep it non sexual.
Mention her style or something about her face or hair that attracted you.
Smile and don't get uptight.
If you expect to be rejected you almost certainly will be rejected.
Keep your attitude friendly and don't crowd the lady.
No one wants their space invaded unless they invite someone to come close.
It's All About Her Focus on the woman.
Ask about her interests, her job, what she likes to do in her free time.
Don't get too personal, that gives the feeling that you're a stalker.
Find out what she likes to do, and then decide on the best dating venue.
Dinner and a movie is cliched and doesn't allow for easy conversation.
Use your imagination and find a date idea that allows you to talk together.
Ask about her and what she's passionate about.
If she asks questions, answer them honestly and don't brag.
You'll know if she's still interested and will accept a second date.
The lady probably put some time and thought into her appearance and you should make it a point to notice.
If you make her feel beautiful, she will be more receptive to you.
Don't lie.
You asked her out, there must have been something that attracted you.
Let her know about it.