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4 Things Men Want Women to Know, But Would Never Say

I want to let you in on a few little secrets.
You may think your relationship is perfect, but chances are, there are a bunch of little things about you that drive your boyfriend/husband nuts.
This list is to help give women an understanding of the thoughts that go on in the minds of men.
Our inner-most thoughts that we would never, EVER, say to your face.
1.
Make-up once and awhile doesn't hurt.
When things start to fizzle out after a few exciting months in relationships, people start to get more comfortable around one another.
And that usually means: a - you spend a lot of time together (which is good) b - you don't take time to do yourself up for each other (which is bad) Now I'm not saying women are more attractive with make-up on or have to wear it.
But I am saying it's important you take time every once and awhile to go through the process of putting on make-up and make the effort to show him he's still worth doing it for.
Like you did in the beginning.
It makes men feel like we've landed a keeper when you go out of your way to look good for us (he should return the favor of course!).
If you sit around all day in jogging pants and glasses on, it's hard to get excited about going and doing anything.
Surprise him with a night out, chances are it doesn't take him long to get ready! 2.
Gasses of any kind, not so hot.
Ok, I admit, I am being a hypocrite here.
I do both of these and I am proud of them.
But when women get comfortable enough to do these, we're in trouble.
It's funny at first...
and slightly comforting knowing women can get comfortable enough with men to burp and fart, but it is a major buzz kill in the bedroom.
Now don't think for one second I think men should do it and women can't.
It's just when the two of you go around having farting contests, even though he might laugh, there's a chance it will affect his attraction to you in the long run (and vice versa).
If you do this a lot around him, turn it down a notch.
If you don't think it's fair, ask him to stop doing it so much or you'll continue to.
3.
Don't talk about or to your ex boyfriends
The LAST thing men like or want to hear about is about your old boyfriend.
Even hearing his name is enough for us to roll our eyes.
Make sure, especially if you're in the company of others, you avoid mentioning (at all costs) anything to do with your ex-boyfriend.
Especially anything in the bedroom.
And if you do happen to mention it, you can rebound if you mention that your current boyfriend has or does it better then your ex.
4.
More dirty talk in the bedroom
What's better then a partner who loves to be intimate with you? One who talks dirty while doing it! 19 out of 20 men I surveyed have all wished that their women knew how to talk dirty.
Each one of them said it would really spice things up in the bedroom, and that their current partners don't do it enough.
If you take some time and learn what to say, you will wow him in the bedroom, more so then any women he's ever experienced! There you have it.
4 little things that men wished you knew but would never tell you.

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