Everybody knows that when we have a relationship with someone else, we have a certain dependence on the other person and we also occasionally have conflicts.
Life is difficult and each one has his or her own personality.
We may love our husband, wife, boyfriend or girlfriend very much, have a great time together, but for some reason or the other, there are occasional conflicts between us because we are human beings.
We are not perfect...
All of us have our own style, philosophy of life, mind, and many things that are totally personal and different from the rest.
We are unique.
We may have the same preferences, match one another perfectly, but we cannot agree all the time and always be happy with the other person.
Life is full of facts, opinions, problems, etc.
Other people interfere in our lives, many situations that don't depend on our will suddenly occur...
We don't live in a paradise: conflicts are a part of life.
Therefore, bear this reality in mind when you fight with the person you love.
Don't be absolute, don't immediately declare that you will abandon them and never again care for them because this is not true.
Control your behavior, think before talking and be mature and superior.
Be comprehensive from the beginning.
Show to the person you love that you have not forgotten everything between you and them only because this conflict happened and it upset both of you.
A separation is not a solution you should even consider mentioning.
Don't make the big mistake to threaten your love that you will abandon him or her each time you fight! As a matter of fact, this is something that must never come from you; not even the idea of a separation.
You must define clearly in your relationship that whenever big or small conflicts may happen, you will solve all the existent problems, without scenes and without more conflicts and pain.
You love each other and you will stay together.
Now, how can you solve the existing problems? There are many options, depending on each problem and on the personality of each person involved.
However, if you really love each other, the solution is very easy to find, no matter how big the problem may be.
The basic solution for all conflicts is forgiveness, comprehension and the desire to kiss the other person and forget everything, because nothing really matters in front of the love you feel for one another! Forgive easily and recognize your faults easily.
Don't make mistake number two: to keep the sad and disappointed mood for long, staying distant while thinking about your own wounds...
Don't bear a grudge.
Be wise.
The relationship you have is more important than the details of many things that happen in your lives, since you really love one another! A separation is something reasonable only when there is no love.
If love really exists between you, than forgiveness and the obvious resolution for all conflicts must be automatic!