Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back by Interpreting His Actions
Losing a relationship you're invested in can be crushing.
If you're determined to get your ex boyfriend back, there are many paths you can take.
Most of them lead to failure, but a select few? They lead right back into his life again.
Before you take a single step toward your now ex boyfriend, it's important to know where you stand.
By examining how your ex acts toward you post-breakup, you can learn a good many things about how much he still loves and respects you.
Interpreting his actions can actually help get him back.
What does your ex boyfriend tell you about his current situation? When your ex is open about his new life, it's because he wants you to know he's still single.
When he becomes secretive or quiet, it's usually because he's started dating again.
An ex boyfriend who's open and honest about his current life will have no hesitation answering the simplest questions.
While you shouldn't be prying for information anyway, an ex who offers up his daily schedule is trying to tell you something: "I'm not seeing anybody else since the break up".
Your ex wants you to know this, because he doesn't want you dating anyone else either.
The more hesitant or vague your ex gets about his life, the more likely he's considering another girlfriend.
Sometimes your ex will try to keep you around, in case he wants to reverse the break up...
but at the same time, he'll wants to date other people.
When this happens he'll be naturally secretive about his own life.
When an ex starts asking about your own situation, he's definitely still interested in you...
but he's also trying to determine how long he can string you along.
If you tell him you've been doing much of nothing, he'll feel comfortable in continuing the break up.
For this reason, it's always best to keep him guessing.
Jealousy can actually be used as a tool to get your ex back, if used carefully.
Don't outright lie to your ex, but definitely keep him in the dark about certain things when it comes to your new personal life.
What level of physical contact have you had with your ex since the break up? Getting physical with an ex boyfriend can be a sign that he's still in love with you, but it can also be nothing more than a fulfillment of more sexual needs.
Understanding your ex's motives here can often be confusing.
If the only contact you've had with your ex consists of some flirting when meeting up with common friends, it's a definite sign of interest.
But if your ex is truly interested, he's also going to call you solo - during times the two of you are not hanging out in a group setting.
Having sex with your ex in a moment of weakness can occur when one or both of you gets lonely after breaking up.
In some cases this can actually be a very good thing - the intimacy of physical contact can re-ignite old sparks and make the two of you realize that you were once good together.
If this happened spontaneously and wasn't the result of planning, it's an even better sign your ex still has feelings for you.
That being said, if you're sleeping with your ex boyfriend on a regular basis? It's probably not such a good idea.
If you're looking to get your ex back, supplying him with contact, companionship and sex means you're pretty much giving him everything he had during the relationship - only without the burden of having to stay monogamous.
Think about it: why would he ask you back out when he's already got everything he wants? You need to consider this, if you want any hope of calling him your boyfriend again.
Making the transition from "friends with benefits" back to boyfriend and girlfriend again is almost an impossibility.
To get your ex boyfriend back you need a solid, step-by-step plan.
Knowing that to do means absolutely nothing if you're not sure when to do it.
Timing is everything, and so is attitude.
Learning the best ways to draw out your ex's residual emotional needs and feelings for you will greatly improve the chances of winning him over.
If you're determined to get your ex boyfriend back, there are many paths you can take.
Most of them lead to failure, but a select few? They lead right back into his life again.
Before you take a single step toward your now ex boyfriend, it's important to know where you stand.
By examining how your ex acts toward you post-breakup, you can learn a good many things about how much he still loves and respects you.
Interpreting his actions can actually help get him back.
What does your ex boyfriend tell you about his current situation? When your ex is open about his new life, it's because he wants you to know he's still single.
When he becomes secretive or quiet, it's usually because he's started dating again.
An ex boyfriend who's open and honest about his current life will have no hesitation answering the simplest questions.
While you shouldn't be prying for information anyway, an ex who offers up his daily schedule is trying to tell you something: "I'm not seeing anybody else since the break up".
Your ex wants you to know this, because he doesn't want you dating anyone else either.
The more hesitant or vague your ex gets about his life, the more likely he's considering another girlfriend.
Sometimes your ex will try to keep you around, in case he wants to reverse the break up...
but at the same time, he'll wants to date other people.
When this happens he'll be naturally secretive about his own life.
When an ex starts asking about your own situation, he's definitely still interested in you...
but he's also trying to determine how long he can string you along.
If you tell him you've been doing much of nothing, he'll feel comfortable in continuing the break up.
For this reason, it's always best to keep him guessing.
Jealousy can actually be used as a tool to get your ex back, if used carefully.
Don't outright lie to your ex, but definitely keep him in the dark about certain things when it comes to your new personal life.
What level of physical contact have you had with your ex since the break up? Getting physical with an ex boyfriend can be a sign that he's still in love with you, but it can also be nothing more than a fulfillment of more sexual needs.
Understanding your ex's motives here can often be confusing.
If the only contact you've had with your ex consists of some flirting when meeting up with common friends, it's a definite sign of interest.
But if your ex is truly interested, he's also going to call you solo - during times the two of you are not hanging out in a group setting.
Having sex with your ex in a moment of weakness can occur when one or both of you gets lonely after breaking up.
In some cases this can actually be a very good thing - the intimacy of physical contact can re-ignite old sparks and make the two of you realize that you were once good together.
If this happened spontaneously and wasn't the result of planning, it's an even better sign your ex still has feelings for you.
That being said, if you're sleeping with your ex boyfriend on a regular basis? It's probably not such a good idea.
If you're looking to get your ex back, supplying him with contact, companionship and sex means you're pretty much giving him everything he had during the relationship - only without the burden of having to stay monogamous.
Think about it: why would he ask you back out when he's already got everything he wants? You need to consider this, if you want any hope of calling him your boyfriend again.
Making the transition from "friends with benefits" back to boyfriend and girlfriend again is almost an impossibility.
To get your ex boyfriend back you need a solid, step-by-step plan.
Knowing that to do means absolutely nothing if you're not sure when to do it.
Timing is everything, and so is attitude.
Learning the best ways to draw out your ex's residual emotional needs and feelings for you will greatly improve the chances of winning him over.
