Family & Relationships Conflict

How Much Time Do You Have Till Your Ex Is Gone Forever?

A lot of exes wonder about this.
They fear that there is a specific time to react from the moment their partner leaves them to a point of no return.
If you also fear you won't get your ex if you don't react fast, fear not.
There is no time frame for getting your ex.
If you and your partner are already broken up, chances are your ex will go on with her/his life as soon as possible.
And if you're trying to get your ex back, that's not necessarily bad news.
A lot depends on how and why the two of you broke up, why did your ex actually leave you? Because if you had a toxic relationship and your ex couldn't take it any more, time you two are apart may actually go in your favor.
Couples that broke up over a tinny little fight, or a misunderstanding, usually get back together within a month.
They both see they made a mistake and ride off happily into the sunset.
Little drama that happens in between helps them fall deeper in love with each other and appreciate their relationship more.
Also the small break up prolongs their honeymoon phase and helps them to connect on a more emotional level.
They have almost lost each other and now they try even harder not to do it again.
For couples that had attraction issues, and the same goes for taking her for granted, getting your ex back means taking a month or tow.
Things that help get the spark going again are not the one's you'd obviously think of.
You won't get your ex back by calling her (or him) non-stop or by confessing your love to her (him) every 5 minutes.
That will actually kill all of the attraction (if there is any left in your relationship), your best bet is in fact to leave your ex alone for a month or so, and then invite her/him for coffee.
After you two meet playfully flirt with her/him and avoid any drama.
If you two had a good thing going, despite becoming a little too comfortable around each other, she/he might be ready to jump back into it.
If your ex sees your new positive attitude towards her/him and that you're not acting like a needy, she'll/he'll at least want to get to know you again.
Lastly, toxic and very destructive relationships.
Those are the ones that need more time to heal.
There are two reasons for this.
First chances are you hurt your ex girlfriend or ex boyfriend petty bad and she'll/he'll be hesitant to get back to you, second you really need to change in order for this relationship to work.
Those relationships take so much time to heal because of the fact that it's not so easy to change at all.
And especially in a very small time frame.
So figure out if that's what you really want and if it is take your time slowly to get your ex back.
Work on your self, change for good.
Your ex will need to regain her thrust in you, and it's not going to be easy.
Now you need to know that time won't stand still while you're trying to get your ex back, and a lot of potential other partners will hit on your ex.
Your ex might date someone else, might even live with someone else, but if you do what ever you can to change your self, not her and what happens in her/his life, you have a good chance of winning your ex back.
Be aware that this is just a time frame break down in order to get your ex back, you need a full plan of action.

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