Date Beautiful Women - Do You Project Negative Energy or Low Energy?
Projecting a low energy level is a huge mistake that guys make on dates.
As soon as a woman perceives you as having low energy, she'll immediately begin to lose interest.
Right away she begins to think, "If he has this little energy now, imagine how he'll be if we were married for five years.
He'll be the guy on the couch all day with his hand down his pants and his beer belly sticking out".
This is how women think.
They rapidly make extreme judgments and create vivid pictures in their minds about you based on every little thing you do when you are first dating.
No woman wants a man who they see as having low energy.
Here are some things you might do unknowingly that make you seem low energy.
Speaking in a monotone voice a monotone voice screams, "I'm boring".
Work on animating your voice.
I go into more detail about this in the voice section of this course.
Having lazy eyes This can be a lifelong habit that you might not even know you do.
Your eyes say so much about you.
All of those songs and sayings about eyes, didn't come about for no reason.
Girls think of the eyes as the windows to the soul.
You can use your eyes to say a lot about yourself.
Do you let your eyelids droop without realizing it.
Stop reading this for a minute and go look at yourself in the mirror.
Envision yourself on a first date.
Picture yourself in her presence.
How are your eyes? Are they less than halfway open? Are you looking down a lot? Now open them wider and look straight ahead with your chin up.
See how much more alive you look.
Now I'm not saying that you should have your eyes blaringly wide open, but you need to open them up more than usual.
You can go back to your relaxed "droopy" eyes here and there but you need to be expressive and keep they open wider at least some of the time.
Use your eyebrows a lot to express yourself.
You can practice this kind of stuff in the mirror.
There is a time to keep you eyes more squinted to create mystery and intrigue but at first you need to at least show them that you have passion and enthusiasm in your eyes.
As soon as a woman perceives you as having low energy, she'll immediately begin to lose interest.
Right away she begins to think, "If he has this little energy now, imagine how he'll be if we were married for five years.
He'll be the guy on the couch all day with his hand down his pants and his beer belly sticking out".
This is how women think.
They rapidly make extreme judgments and create vivid pictures in their minds about you based on every little thing you do when you are first dating.
No woman wants a man who they see as having low energy.
Here are some things you might do unknowingly that make you seem low energy.
Speaking in a monotone voice a monotone voice screams, "I'm boring".
Work on animating your voice.
I go into more detail about this in the voice section of this course.
Having lazy eyes This can be a lifelong habit that you might not even know you do.
Your eyes say so much about you.
All of those songs and sayings about eyes, didn't come about for no reason.
Girls think of the eyes as the windows to the soul.
You can use your eyes to say a lot about yourself.
Do you let your eyelids droop without realizing it.
Stop reading this for a minute and go look at yourself in the mirror.
Envision yourself on a first date.
Picture yourself in her presence.
How are your eyes? Are they less than halfway open? Are you looking down a lot? Now open them wider and look straight ahead with your chin up.
See how much more alive you look.
Now I'm not saying that you should have your eyes blaringly wide open, but you need to open them up more than usual.
You can go back to your relaxed "droopy" eyes here and there but you need to be expressive and keep they open wider at least some of the time.
Use your eyebrows a lot to express yourself.
You can practice this kind of stuff in the mirror.
There is a time to keep you eyes more squinted to create mystery and intrigue but at first you need to at least show them that you have passion and enthusiasm in your eyes.
