Cool Down and Think Hard on How to Save the Relationship With Your Ex
When a relationship breaks, two worlds are shattered and at least one in that broken relationship will long for reconciliation.
There are many reasons leading to a breakdown in relationship and it is important to identify these problems in order to rectify and repair the broken relationship.
Analyze The Causes Sit down and think through your relationship.
Analyze and understand what were the causes for the unhappiness and why things have turned out the way it had.
Think about what you intend to do about the problems and when you have decided, have a heart to heart talk with your partner and try to work things out to salvage the relationship.
If things turn out well, do try to adhere to the following and not repeat the same mistakes.
Lack of Communication One of the most common problems is lack of communication so try to talk more to your partner and understand his/her needs and interests.
Listen to what they have to say.
Do not assume that your partner will like something just because you do or anything that you have planned for his/her.
What you think may be good for your partner may not be so good for him/her.
Ask your partner what he/she wants, and really listen and remember.
Mutual Respect and Trust Mutual respect and trust is equally important.
Try to respect what each other is doing and do not laugh or criticize even if you do not approve of it.
Always support your partner in his/her decision and what he/she plans to do.
Have trust in your partner's taste and if you can, join him or her in the activities.
This will strengthen the bonds between both of you and you will have common topics and interests to talk and share about.
Being Too Possessive? Sometimes, being too possessive can cause a breakdown in a relationship.
Try to give each other more personal space and privacy.
Do not hog your partner all the time.
He/she might want to go out with friends for a gathering occasionally.
Be open about it and do not insist on tagging along everywhere your partner goes.
He/she might feel restrained and this will only cause a blemish in the relationship.
In fact if you can be very liberal about it, your partner will love you more and appreciate the free time that you have given him/her.
Solutions Even when all seemed to be ruined in a broken relationship, there are still solutions.
The trick is to try as hard as you can and stop being so critical of your partner's every action and wish.
To fix broken relationship, you'll need to look deep inside your soul and find the person you were with in the first place and asked yourself why you were with him/her in the first place.
In this way, you will be able to practice more love and tolerance.
There are many reasons leading to a breakdown in relationship and it is important to identify these problems in order to rectify and repair the broken relationship.
Analyze The Causes Sit down and think through your relationship.
Analyze and understand what were the causes for the unhappiness and why things have turned out the way it had.
Think about what you intend to do about the problems and when you have decided, have a heart to heart talk with your partner and try to work things out to salvage the relationship.
If things turn out well, do try to adhere to the following and not repeat the same mistakes.
Lack of Communication One of the most common problems is lack of communication so try to talk more to your partner and understand his/her needs and interests.
Listen to what they have to say.
Do not assume that your partner will like something just because you do or anything that you have planned for his/her.
What you think may be good for your partner may not be so good for him/her.
Ask your partner what he/she wants, and really listen and remember.
Mutual Respect and Trust Mutual respect and trust is equally important.
Try to respect what each other is doing and do not laugh or criticize even if you do not approve of it.
Always support your partner in his/her decision and what he/she plans to do.
Have trust in your partner's taste and if you can, join him or her in the activities.
This will strengthen the bonds between both of you and you will have common topics and interests to talk and share about.
Being Too Possessive? Sometimes, being too possessive can cause a breakdown in a relationship.
Try to give each other more personal space and privacy.
Do not hog your partner all the time.
He/she might want to go out with friends for a gathering occasionally.
Be open about it and do not insist on tagging along everywhere your partner goes.
He/she might feel restrained and this will only cause a blemish in the relationship.
In fact if you can be very liberal about it, your partner will love you more and appreciate the free time that you have given him/her.
Solutions Even when all seemed to be ruined in a broken relationship, there are still solutions.
The trick is to try as hard as you can and stop being so critical of your partner's every action and wish.
To fix broken relationship, you'll need to look deep inside your soul and find the person you were with in the first place and asked yourself why you were with him/her in the first place.
In this way, you will be able to practice more love and tolerance.
