How to Win Your Ex Boyfriend Back
1DON'T BECOME THE EX FROM HELL! Seriously, the worst thing you can do now is to start annoying your ex with calls, messages and texts.
Being constantly harassed is not going to do you any favors.
opportunity to actually miss you.
The same goes for letting him see you upset - try not to let him see he holds the aces.
2BE REASONABLE : Don't make unreasonable requests.
However good it may make you feel in the short term to do something spiteful, don't.
The pressure is on you to try and find a way to get him to see you in a positive light.
Focus on being the peacemaker and try and build some bridges.
Although that does not mean being a doormat.
3GET OUT THERE!: You had a life before you met him, right- so go out and do things that you like doing.
This doesn't necessarily mean seeing other men, but continuing with your social life.
Your life will carry on with or without him, let him know about it! 4DON'T PRETEND TO BE SOMEONE YOU AREN'T : The most you can do is be the best that you are, don't try and be another person.
Your ex wanted you already as you are.
Don't try and become the 'ideal' woman - no such thing exists.
Someone who stays secure about who they are is far more an attractive option than someone who feels the need to change on a whim! 5BUT...
BE PREPARED TO TAKE STUFF ON BOARD: Did your boyfriend say why when he went away? If he did, and there were any details of the relationship that he gave as being the problem, now is the time to think about them? Do you think your relationship needs more quality time with each other? Were you arguing about money? If it's not down to actual getting on with each other, it could be more easily solved than you think.
There is some in between wanting to keep your boyfriend and having to completely change everything, though.
Being constantly harassed is not going to do you any favors.
opportunity to actually miss you.
The same goes for letting him see you upset - try not to let him see he holds the aces.
2BE REASONABLE : Don't make unreasonable requests.
However good it may make you feel in the short term to do something spiteful, don't.
The pressure is on you to try and find a way to get him to see you in a positive light.
Focus on being the peacemaker and try and build some bridges.
Although that does not mean being a doormat.
3GET OUT THERE!: You had a life before you met him, right- so go out and do things that you like doing.
This doesn't necessarily mean seeing other men, but continuing with your social life.
Your life will carry on with or without him, let him know about it! 4DON'T PRETEND TO BE SOMEONE YOU AREN'T : The most you can do is be the best that you are, don't try and be another person.
Your ex wanted you already as you are.
Don't try and become the 'ideal' woman - no such thing exists.
Someone who stays secure about who they are is far more an attractive option than someone who feels the need to change on a whim! 5BUT...
BE PREPARED TO TAKE STUFF ON BOARD: Did your boyfriend say why when he went away? If he did, and there were any details of the relationship that he gave as being the problem, now is the time to think about them? Do you think your relationship needs more quality time with each other? Were you arguing about money? If it's not down to actual getting on with each other, it could be more easily solved than you think.
There is some in between wanting to keep your boyfriend and having to completely change everything, though.
