Well I'm not one to pull punches when it comes to most relationship issues and now isn't any different. So many people are looking for breaking up advice. They are looking for all the answers when for the most part the answers are right in front of them. You most likely know why the relationship is failing. The problem is you just don't want to admit it.

For true breaking up advice I suggest taking a look into the mirror. Take a look and figure out where things went wrong and if it's too late to make things right. You need to understand what you did to make the relationship head in the wrong direction. Were you abusive, unfaithful, and ignorant or just a plain old jerk. Oh sure now you are looking for sympathy. What were you thinking when you were being a jerk and really are things going to change.

I know this all sounds a little cold but if you want breaking up advice and a chance at getting back your ex you need to understand the cold hard truth. Don't make yourself out to be the victim if you're not and have some genuine concern for your ex.

So once you figure out what it is you did then ask yourself if you would forgive your ex if they would have done that. Put yourself in their shoes when asking for breaking up advice. Now that you have figured out where you went wrong you need to take a long hard look and decide if you can change and if you can make things right. If you think you can then you need to talk to your ex and find out their feelings on the entire situation.

I really would hope things could work out but the best breaking up advice I can offer is remember it is what it is. In most cases getting back with your ex will entirely depend on what they want. I think you need to be prepared for whatever they decide. It may be time to lift your head and keep whatever dignity you still have and walk away with it.