How to Approach a Girl in Class (Ways to Overcome Your Shyness and Get it Done)
How do you approach a girl in class? Once upon a time it was simple.
If you wanted a girl you left your cave, found the girl, hit her over the head with your club, dragged her home and then went on about your business.
Oh, the good old days.
(Of course you did have to worry about large man eating beasts stalking you, but I digress) These days it is much harder.
What if she rejects me? What if she embarrasses me? If you fail, you might feel, you risk being a social outcast for the rest of your life.
The approach The actual ways to approach her are easy.
You just do it.
You could go for direct and just ask her how she is doing today.
You could go for indirect and ask her what the homework was for the previous night.
If your teacher has pit stains or something that you make fun of you could try to involve her in a joke at his/her expense.
Really, the answers are that easy.
You just have to get up the courage to take those steps.
The courage to approach Getting up the courage to approach is not that easy.
Try this out: do not only make an effort to talk to her, make a general effort to be more outgoing first.
Talk to a lot of other guys and girls in your class first, say hello and greet multiple people daily.
If some random guy or girl you do not care about rejects you for trying to be friendly, do you care? Well, you certainly shouldn't.
This should help to boost your confidence.
Then just slip her into the mix and greet her daily too.
That way it will not seem like the quiet guy who never talks is suddenly moving in on the hot chick.
Soon you will get to know her and have broken the ice gently.
It will then be easier to talk to her more and more.
Next thing you know, you are in.
If you wanted a girl you left your cave, found the girl, hit her over the head with your club, dragged her home and then went on about your business.
Oh, the good old days.
(Of course you did have to worry about large man eating beasts stalking you, but I digress) These days it is much harder.
What if she rejects me? What if she embarrasses me? If you fail, you might feel, you risk being a social outcast for the rest of your life.
The approach The actual ways to approach her are easy.
You just do it.
You could go for direct and just ask her how she is doing today.
You could go for indirect and ask her what the homework was for the previous night.
If your teacher has pit stains or something that you make fun of you could try to involve her in a joke at his/her expense.
Really, the answers are that easy.
You just have to get up the courage to take those steps.
The courage to approach Getting up the courage to approach is not that easy.
Try this out: do not only make an effort to talk to her, make a general effort to be more outgoing first.
Talk to a lot of other guys and girls in your class first, say hello and greet multiple people daily.
If some random guy or girl you do not care about rejects you for trying to be friendly, do you care? Well, you certainly shouldn't.
This should help to boost your confidence.
Then just slip her into the mix and greet her daily too.
That way it will not seem like the quiet guy who never talks is suddenly moving in on the hot chick.
Soon you will get to know her and have broken the ice gently.
It will then be easier to talk to her more and more.
Next thing you know, you are in.