How to Make Your Ex Start Talking to You Again - Some Intelligent Communication Strategies
Would you call me mad if I told you that to make your ex start talking to you again you need to stop talking to him or her? But the truth of the matter is that if you persist for too long - he would know about your desperation and stop all modes of communication.
One of the most important things to remember when you wish to make your ex start talking to you again is that you cannot force your ex to reopen the blocked channels of communication.
Be that as it may, here are some interesting and intelligent strategies that make clever use of man's inherent nature to talk: •Keep all channels of communication and means to get in touch with you open, but this does not mean that you are available all the time.
•If your ex uses a conduit to pass on a massage to you, use the same conduit to respond.
Do not take any initiative to establish communication.
•To make your ex start talking to you again, make sure that your ex gets to know whatever is happening in your life.
For this, make clever use of common friends to pass on relevant information.
•If there is no news worth conveying, create news which is interesting to your ex.
For example, get hold of relevant information regarding a scholarship program, a new placement service that you have come to know, etc.
The essence here is to trigger that desire in your ex to pick up the phone and talk to you.
•Some people use the jealousy route to invoke some reaction in their exes.
Personally I believe that things can go horribly wrong if such situations are handled immaturely.
But some people do succeed in tickling their ex lovers when seen with a new person.
•However desperate you may be to make your ex start talking to you again, never do the following: leave desperate messages on his/her answering machines at odd hours of the day or night; send cards and gifts across; send meaningless mails and so on.
As mentioned earlier, these gestures only display your desperation but can never make your ex talk to you in the way you want him or her to.
•You can successfully make your ex start talking to you again and that also without losing your dignity is to first understand why he or she is not talking to you.
It has nothing to do with the way they feel about you but it is simply a silent signal that says that they need more time and space.
You too need this time to rethink about the split and your role in it.
To get to the bottom of the crisis, both of you could do with some silence, for a change.
One of the most important things to remember when you wish to make your ex start talking to you again is that you cannot force your ex to reopen the blocked channels of communication.
Be that as it may, here are some interesting and intelligent strategies that make clever use of man's inherent nature to talk: •Keep all channels of communication and means to get in touch with you open, but this does not mean that you are available all the time.
•If your ex uses a conduit to pass on a massage to you, use the same conduit to respond.
Do not take any initiative to establish communication.
•To make your ex start talking to you again, make sure that your ex gets to know whatever is happening in your life.
For this, make clever use of common friends to pass on relevant information.
•If there is no news worth conveying, create news which is interesting to your ex.
For example, get hold of relevant information regarding a scholarship program, a new placement service that you have come to know, etc.
The essence here is to trigger that desire in your ex to pick up the phone and talk to you.
•Some people use the jealousy route to invoke some reaction in their exes.
Personally I believe that things can go horribly wrong if such situations are handled immaturely.
But some people do succeed in tickling their ex lovers when seen with a new person.
•However desperate you may be to make your ex start talking to you again, never do the following: leave desperate messages on his/her answering machines at odd hours of the day or night; send cards and gifts across; send meaningless mails and so on.
As mentioned earlier, these gestures only display your desperation but can never make your ex talk to you in the way you want him or her to.
•You can successfully make your ex start talking to you again and that also without losing your dignity is to first understand why he or she is not talking to you.
It has nothing to do with the way they feel about you but it is simply a silent signal that says that they need more time and space.
You too need this time to rethink about the split and your role in it.
To get to the bottom of the crisis, both of you could do with some silence, for a change.
