Can You Get Your Love Back? The Top 3 Things to Save Your Relationship Are Here!
If you think that getting your ex back is impossible, don't fear.
There is hope that you will come back stronger than ever.
But it won't be easy.
If you are starting to have some discussions with them, be sure to focus on these 3 things if you're still having conflict.
1) Focus on people's feeling, not what was done.
Try to rectify the feelings that are hurt.
Accusations or mentioning something that was done is the last thing you should be do.
If you want them back, then don't mention anyone's action that caused a negative feeling, even if it might be justified.
Keep the focus on what makes their feelings about you good.
That is what will ultimately bring them back.
Just remember, acknowledge emotions, not negative actions.
If these actions keep coming up by them, try to work out a compromise in some way, but being in the right location might help, which brings us to...
2) Change the environment.
If you are trying to work things out with them, it's best to be is in an environment where arguments and conflict didn't happen.
So meet them at a happy place.
Favorite restaurant, park or wherever might trigger nostalgic and happy memories that you once shared.
This will help keep BOTH of your minds to be in the right place to promote reconciliation and bonding.
Sometimes whatever bad stuff that caused the breakup will keep coming up, despite focusing on promoting good feelings.
So focus on positive feelings in a happy environment.
This will promote a good start and suppress whatever negative actions or feelings we're trying to avoid.
3) Keep this in mind.
Most conflict is over matters of little REAL substance that have gotten blown up in people's minds and they let them get out of control.
Maybe they feel like you didn't appreciate them or something like that.
Maybe they don't feel that you feel you're worth there time.
Change that opinion now! Keep the cause of the arguments in perspective, be creative and have fun into downplaying the real significance of them.
Use lots of sense of humor to lighten the mood.
Moving forward it will be important to address these issues by not doing whatever is causing problems, but for now, focus on there feelings for you.
Try to be a good listener and help them with there needs, wants, and dreams while keeping the mood fun and light.
This last step might sound hard, which is why steps 1 and 2 will help put everyone's mind in the right place to lighten the sting of bad feelings that might rise up.
There is hope that you will come back stronger than ever.
But it won't be easy.
If you are starting to have some discussions with them, be sure to focus on these 3 things if you're still having conflict.
1) Focus on people's feeling, not what was done.
Try to rectify the feelings that are hurt.
Accusations or mentioning something that was done is the last thing you should be do.
If you want them back, then don't mention anyone's action that caused a negative feeling, even if it might be justified.
Keep the focus on what makes their feelings about you good.
That is what will ultimately bring them back.
Just remember, acknowledge emotions, not negative actions.
If these actions keep coming up by them, try to work out a compromise in some way, but being in the right location might help, which brings us to...
2) Change the environment.
If you are trying to work things out with them, it's best to be is in an environment where arguments and conflict didn't happen.
So meet them at a happy place.
Favorite restaurant, park or wherever might trigger nostalgic and happy memories that you once shared.
This will help keep BOTH of your minds to be in the right place to promote reconciliation and bonding.
Sometimes whatever bad stuff that caused the breakup will keep coming up, despite focusing on promoting good feelings.
So focus on positive feelings in a happy environment.
This will promote a good start and suppress whatever negative actions or feelings we're trying to avoid.
3) Keep this in mind.
Most conflict is over matters of little REAL substance that have gotten blown up in people's minds and they let them get out of control.
Maybe they feel like you didn't appreciate them or something like that.
Maybe they don't feel that you feel you're worth there time.
Change that opinion now! Keep the cause of the arguments in perspective, be creative and have fun into downplaying the real significance of them.
Use lots of sense of humor to lighten the mood.
Moving forward it will be important to address these issues by not doing whatever is causing problems, but for now, focus on there feelings for you.
Try to be a good listener and help them with there needs, wants, and dreams while keeping the mood fun and light.
This last step might sound hard, which is why steps 1 and 2 will help put everyone's mind in the right place to lighten the sting of bad feelings that might rise up.
