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How to Seduce Women When You Are Just A Regular Guy

I've seen a lot of guys get put off to the idea of learning how to seduce women because they seem themselves as just being regular guys, and when they see self proclaimed pick up artists who talk about seduction, they see guys who wear make up, put copious amounts of styling product in their hair, and look like they spend more time shopping than your average 21 year old woman does.
Of course, when you see those kinds of images associated with seducing women and you are just a regular guy, it can be a little off putting to say the least.
The reality of it all is you don't have to be that guy that looks like he spends 3 hours a day just to get ready to go out to seduce women.
You can be a t shirt and jeans kind of guy and still do quite well, as long as you are basing your seduction techniques on things that seem more natural, less scripted, and more congruent with who you really are.
Myself, I could never get into that style of looking like a reality television reject, and it has not hampered my success with women at all.
In fact, as long as you are not in a super trendy area like Manhattan or LA, it can actually be a huge benefit NOT to be one of those guys.
Seduction is not about the whole look that you have.
It's about the feeling that you give a woman.
When you know how to turn on a woman without any gimmicks or routines, you can be who you are and still do really well with women.
Not only that, you will also be much more likely to attract women who are cool to hang out with, and not the kind of girls who are out to hook up every weekend.
Sometimes the quality over quantity approach to seduction can actually be better in the long run.
So, how can you seduce women if you are just a regular guy? Like I said before, it's all about the feelings and emotions that a woman feels when she is with you, it's not about what clothes you wear or how you style your hair.
Most women want a man's man anyway, so you actually have a much better chance than you probably think you do.
The thing that you want to work on more than appearance and style is the ability to trigger certain emotions in a woman.
Make her feel excited, intrigued, and protected when she is with you and you will be that much closer to being able to get her into bed.
Learn how to read her the right way so that you know what she is thinking and when to make your move and you will come across as being EXACTLY the kind of guy she has been looking for.
It's all about being TRUE to yourself...
As corny as that might sound, being able to seduce women is all about being true to yourself.
After all, you are the one what ends up dealing with the women you attract, and if you are giving off a fake air about yourself or you feel like you have to play a certain character to do well with women, how long will that last?

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