Is There a Right Orgasm For Satisfying Senior Sex?
I don't know about you...
but I am finished with the whole "debate" over vaginal, g-spot, clitoral orgasms.
There are still so many senior women who just want to have one...
no matter how it would be classified.
So, let's get serious and talk a little about anatomy and physiology.
Don't be squeamish.
If Oprah could do it on national television, you can read about it in the privacy of your own computer.
So, just what is an orgasm and how do you make sure you have one, have had one, or can't imagine what it would be like to have one.
If we talk about the process of women having an orgasm, it is very similar to what men experience.
The parts are different, but not the process.
Like men, it starts with desire.
It's the emotion of desire, wanting to be sexual with this person at this time, that starts the flow of hormones and chemicals triggering the flow of blood into your genital area, specifically your clitoris and your labia.
At the same time, the chemicals trigger the flow of lubricating fluids in your vagina.
Your body is getting ready to have intercourse.
And, your feelings are bringing you there.
As you relax into your feelings, your body responds to make sure you are ready and able to experience an orgasm.
Most couples start their love making sessions with sensuous hugs, kisses, caresses, and sweet nothings whispered to each other.
All of these activities stimulate and build desire.
As desire builds, most find they want and appreciate more direct sexual stimulation to their most sensitive areas...
lips, breasts (yes many men also find this stimulating and exciting), necks, ears, all those favorite personal erogenous zones.
Especially the genitals.
Because the clitoris is the area of a woman's body most tightly packed with nerve endings, most women find it exquisitely sensitive and erotic.
In fact many women find it difficult to have an orgasm without direct clitoral stimulation.
Smart men know this, and make sure their ladies get the stimulation they want, need, and appreciate.
Smart women find they can stimulate themselves during their love making to help themselves over the hump into the release of orgasm.
Does this mean that all orgasms are triggered by stimulating the clitoris? Not necessarily.
Every woman is different and has her own pattern, sensitive areas, and types of stimulation that will most effectively help her achieve an orgasm.
The key is making sure you both know what works, how much and what kind of stimulation works best to trigger an orgasm.
If you're one of the vast number of couples that are still working on both of you having an orgasm during your lovemaking session, make sure you take time for each of you.
And not necessarily at the same time.
Most couples find it impossible to have the much discussed and fantasized simultaneous orgasms.
Men and women's bodies seem to work on a totally different schedules during a love making session.
So, for the best senior sex, relax, lay back, enjoy yourselves, and find a rhythm and pattern that can satisfy each of you...
most of the time.
but I am finished with the whole "debate" over vaginal, g-spot, clitoral orgasms.
There are still so many senior women who just want to have one...
no matter how it would be classified.
So, let's get serious and talk a little about anatomy and physiology.
Don't be squeamish.
If Oprah could do it on national television, you can read about it in the privacy of your own computer.
So, just what is an orgasm and how do you make sure you have one, have had one, or can't imagine what it would be like to have one.
If we talk about the process of women having an orgasm, it is very similar to what men experience.
The parts are different, but not the process.
Like men, it starts with desire.
It's the emotion of desire, wanting to be sexual with this person at this time, that starts the flow of hormones and chemicals triggering the flow of blood into your genital area, specifically your clitoris and your labia.
At the same time, the chemicals trigger the flow of lubricating fluids in your vagina.
Your body is getting ready to have intercourse.
And, your feelings are bringing you there.
As you relax into your feelings, your body responds to make sure you are ready and able to experience an orgasm.
Most couples start their love making sessions with sensuous hugs, kisses, caresses, and sweet nothings whispered to each other.
All of these activities stimulate and build desire.
As desire builds, most find they want and appreciate more direct sexual stimulation to their most sensitive areas...
lips, breasts (yes many men also find this stimulating and exciting), necks, ears, all those favorite personal erogenous zones.
Especially the genitals.
Because the clitoris is the area of a woman's body most tightly packed with nerve endings, most women find it exquisitely sensitive and erotic.
In fact many women find it difficult to have an orgasm without direct clitoral stimulation.
Smart men know this, and make sure their ladies get the stimulation they want, need, and appreciate.
Smart women find they can stimulate themselves during their love making to help themselves over the hump into the release of orgasm.
Does this mean that all orgasms are triggered by stimulating the clitoris? Not necessarily.
Every woman is different and has her own pattern, sensitive areas, and types of stimulation that will most effectively help her achieve an orgasm.
The key is making sure you both know what works, how much and what kind of stimulation works best to trigger an orgasm.
If you're one of the vast number of couples that are still working on both of you having an orgasm during your lovemaking session, make sure you take time for each of you.
And not necessarily at the same time.
Most couples find it impossible to have the much discussed and fantasized simultaneous orgasms.
Men and women's bodies seem to work on a totally different schedules during a love making session.
So, for the best senior sex, relax, lay back, enjoy yourselves, and find a rhythm and pattern that can satisfy each of you...
most of the time.
