Family & Relationships Conflict

My Ex Girlfriend Is Dating Someone Else - She Still Calls Me Up, What Does That Mean?

Being caught in a situation where you really don't know what is going on can be terribly frustrating and confusing.
If you are still attracted to your ex girlfriend and she is dating someone else, that alone can be enough to make you feel almost stuck in a weird place.
However, if she is dating someone else and she is still calling you up, that can make things seem even weirder.
What does it mean if she is seeing another guy now, but she still wants to keep in touch with you? What does it mean, what does it mean...
Well, it can actually mean many things.
One really common scenario that a lot of men get trapped in, is that they kind of become their ex girlfriend's fall back guy.
What is a fall back guy? It's the guy that she knows that she can get with if she wants to, but she keeps him on the side while she goes out and sees what other men she can get.
Basically, being the fall back guy means that you are a back up option at best.
That's not the only possibility, though.
She may be calling you up because she feels like you are still the one that she wants to talk to, but because of whatever happened between the two of you she does not think that a relationship would work out.
When this situation happens, the reality is that you probably can get her back, as long as you can make her see that a relationship would work out.
Is she just exploring or not? It's not uncommon for a woman to want to explore what other guys are out there.
That does not mean that she does not still have feelings or that she is not attracted to you.
In fact, quite the opposite can be true.
I think we have all heard about rebound relationships before.
Usually, they don't mean much and they don't last too long.
If your ex girlfriend is calling you up, but she is dating someone else, then there is a good possibility that the guy she is seeing is nothing more than just a rebound, a distraction from her TRUE feelings.
What does this mean for YOU? It means that the door is still OPEN for you to get her back.
While it may not happen in the blink of an eye, as long as you are cool about the situation, and you use the opportunities that you get to talk to her to create massive attraction, then you can probably end up back together.
You really have quite a good opportunity to win her back, you just have to be careful that you don't push her further into the new guy's arms by losing your cool.

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