For beginners just starting out, the swinging lifestyle can be very overwhelming. There are hidden sex rules, terms and clubs. As a new swinger or swinging couple, just like anything else, you want to try to learn as much as you possibly can from the start. There are tons of swingers clubs, like Swing & Fling - Swingers Adult Dating Club, online. It's probably a good idea for couples new to the swinging lifestyle to start off soft swinging. Soft swinging occurs when the couple engage in sexual activities while two or more other couples perform sex acts in the immediate vicinity. Soft swinging will help the new swingers get fully acclimated with the swinging sex lifestyle. There's no one general rule that works for everyone but soft swinging is generally an easy entrance into swinging and the overwhelming sexual events/parties of the swinging lifestyle.

Many people wonder, what's the difference between swinger sex and cheating on your mate. In both cases the swinger is sleeping and having sex with someone other than their wife or husband. Many would call that cheating. However I beg to differ, the key component that separates cheating from swinging is that when swinging the act is consentual by all parties including the husband and wife. When the husband or wife is sneaking or lying to have sex with others, that is called cheating.

Many potential swingers want to know what is so fun about swinger sex. The answer pretty much speaks for itself.  Swinger sex is predicated on fantasy! Usually involving threesomes, orgy's, wife swapping and group sex. Swinger sex parties allow swingers and swinging couples the opportunity of sexual fantasies they've ALWAYS dreamed of. The open minded nature of the swinger sex parties allows its participants bring sexual creativity to their lives that could never imagine.

As the swinging lifestyle continues to gain popularity, many people are weighing in with their opinions on wife swapping. Many believe that the swinging lifestyle itself was derived from the practice of wife swapping. Wife swapping can be incredibly fun, erotic and sexual especially for the husbands that "like to watch". I will warn you that the first couple of times may be a little uncomfortable depending on how secure you are with yourself and your marriage. But once(or if) you can get over that hurdle of seeing your wife sexually stimulated by another man, woman or both, you'll on your way to an amazing swinger sexual lifestyle. Threesomes, orgy's and swinger sex parties are that much better when wifey can play too!

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