What Is the Secret Behind Being a Romantic Boyfriend?
Many people think romance is about sending cards, giving flowers, chocolates or showing her with affection.
Whilst it is true that some women love these things, there is a way to touch a woman's heart much deeper than what choosing any old random gifts can do.
There is one important reason why women love to be romanced properly.
In this article, we'll described this reason and how to implicate this when it comes to your relationship and thinking of your own new romantic ideas.
I promised you the reason, so here it is.
The main reason women want to be romanced is because they want to feel positive emotions, such as happiness, joy and most important of all love! Keep that in mind whilst we discuss that application of this simple fact.
When a girl receives a bunch of her favourite flowers, what is she thinking? She is thinking about the flowers; the colours, the smell, the beauty of them.
She may have feelings of happiness that you remembered her favourite flowers and that makes her feel special.
Women love that.
You see for most women thrive on emotions, they will do anything to get them; like eat chocolate (make them feel happy), watch a romantic movie that makes them cry (makes them feel sad) or even go shopping for new clothes (makes them feel treated).
So when you next think about doing something for your girlfriend, think about how your gift will make her feel.
An example of how not to do it would a colleague of mine that bought a hoover for his girlfriend's birthday.
It's not surprising that his girlfriend didn't speak to him for days.
The main reason was that the hoover did not make her feel special and actually pissed her off because he never does the hoovering! A better example would be to think of something your girlfriend loves, but she has never explicitly told you that she wants it.
This way when you produce the gift she will feel all of those positive emotions and feel like you listen to her, care about her and maybe if you get the gift right, have mind reading skills.
It's all about paying attention to the little things that make a big difference.
Keep a list either on you mobile phone or in a diary whenever you girlfriend expresses a wish for something or whether she likes this or that.
That way whenever you need to buy her a present you have a database of ideas that you can refer to that will be guaranteed to hit the spot.
Whilst it is true that some women love these things, there is a way to touch a woman's heart much deeper than what choosing any old random gifts can do.
There is one important reason why women love to be romanced properly.
In this article, we'll described this reason and how to implicate this when it comes to your relationship and thinking of your own new romantic ideas.
I promised you the reason, so here it is.
The main reason women want to be romanced is because they want to feel positive emotions, such as happiness, joy and most important of all love! Keep that in mind whilst we discuss that application of this simple fact.
When a girl receives a bunch of her favourite flowers, what is she thinking? She is thinking about the flowers; the colours, the smell, the beauty of them.
She may have feelings of happiness that you remembered her favourite flowers and that makes her feel special.
Women love that.
You see for most women thrive on emotions, they will do anything to get them; like eat chocolate (make them feel happy), watch a romantic movie that makes them cry (makes them feel sad) or even go shopping for new clothes (makes them feel treated).
So when you next think about doing something for your girlfriend, think about how your gift will make her feel.
An example of how not to do it would a colleague of mine that bought a hoover for his girlfriend's birthday.
It's not surprising that his girlfriend didn't speak to him for days.
The main reason was that the hoover did not make her feel special and actually pissed her off because he never does the hoovering! A better example would be to think of something your girlfriend loves, but she has never explicitly told you that she wants it.
This way when you produce the gift she will feel all of those positive emotions and feel like you listen to her, care about her and maybe if you get the gift right, have mind reading skills.
It's all about paying attention to the little things that make a big difference.
Keep a list either on you mobile phone or in a diary whenever you girlfriend expresses a wish for something or whether she likes this or that.
That way whenever you need to buy her a present you have a database of ideas that you can refer to that will be guaranteed to hit the spot.
