Build a House - 7 Golden Rules to Securing a Strong Relationship While Building a House
Building your home is exciting and can be very challenging.
We want to give you a relational floor plan, and proven golden rules to help you navigate the journey of home construction with as little stress and conflict as possible.
The most significant truth we've discovered is that a couple's relationship will be remodeled along with their home.
Couples have shown that accepting and working with this reality radically decreases the stress, and results in more mutual satisfaction throughout the home construction process.
A blueprint is as vital to building a home as a relational blueprint is to your bond as a couple's experience of the process and each other.
There are 7 golden rules; each unlocking the door to your new dream home and renovated relationship.
In fact, the golden rules turn into golden keys to open the door of your new home! It is important that take each rule in order; as each key builds upon another.
Golden Rule-Key 1 Make Sure the Time is Right Building or remodeling a home is a major life event, one that will change your family, and most certainly your relationship, forever.
The success of your journey as a couple and a family will depend on how intentional you are about the decisions you make.
No one can predict the future, but taking time to assess whether the timing is right for a project of this magnitude is crucial.
Golden Rule-Key 2 Dream Big Dreaming is a significant part of the overall process.
You will be encouraged to dream big and unearth everything you want in your new home.
After gathering together all of your needs and "must-haves," you will bring your dream into the realm of what is possible for you as a couple.
Golden Rule-Key 3 Plan Sensibly Having a personal guidance system such as a map, GPS or plan will keep you directed and focused, and help you make decisions that are aligned with your values and goals.
Golden Rule-Key 4 Launch Your Dream Breaking ground on your construction project is preceded by several important steps.
Having the right tools and resources as part of your team is strategic to launching your dreams successfully.
You need to know how to hire the right General Contractor and interior designer.
Having the well-matched and professional resources on your team can get you well on your way in your building process.
Golden Rule-Key 5 Live in Financial Integrity Maintaining financial integrity is the key to sustaining honor, stability and strength in your relationship throughout your remodel or building undertaking.
Your money beliefs and styles influence your relationship and building project.
Golden Rule-Key 6Expect the Unexpected Even when a project is initiated at a time when you're free to devote what is needed, life can intrude on our plans.
Learning to move through unexpected life events such as death and grief, injuries and even some "nice" surprises is critical to success.
Golden Rule-Key 7 Use Tools to Deal with Stress Stress impacts relationships and the construction process.
Stress can rule the project and ruin the relationship.
Reducing stress will help you keep the love in your relationship.
Celebrating your successes and adding those finishing touches can make it really feel like your home.
These 7 golden rules with keys will help you co-create a clear plan of action for your project, open the door to your new home and promote happiness and fulfillment in your relationship throughout the construction process.
For more in-depth information about the Golden Rules click on link in the resource box.
We want to give you a relational floor plan, and proven golden rules to help you navigate the journey of home construction with as little stress and conflict as possible.
The most significant truth we've discovered is that a couple's relationship will be remodeled along with their home.
Couples have shown that accepting and working with this reality radically decreases the stress, and results in more mutual satisfaction throughout the home construction process.
A blueprint is as vital to building a home as a relational blueprint is to your bond as a couple's experience of the process and each other.
There are 7 golden rules; each unlocking the door to your new dream home and renovated relationship.
In fact, the golden rules turn into golden keys to open the door of your new home! It is important that take each rule in order; as each key builds upon another.
Golden Rule-Key 1 Make Sure the Time is Right Building or remodeling a home is a major life event, one that will change your family, and most certainly your relationship, forever.
The success of your journey as a couple and a family will depend on how intentional you are about the decisions you make.
No one can predict the future, but taking time to assess whether the timing is right for a project of this magnitude is crucial.
Golden Rule-Key 2 Dream Big Dreaming is a significant part of the overall process.
You will be encouraged to dream big and unearth everything you want in your new home.
After gathering together all of your needs and "must-haves," you will bring your dream into the realm of what is possible for you as a couple.
Golden Rule-Key 3 Plan Sensibly Having a personal guidance system such as a map, GPS or plan will keep you directed and focused, and help you make decisions that are aligned with your values and goals.
Golden Rule-Key 4 Launch Your Dream Breaking ground on your construction project is preceded by several important steps.
Having the right tools and resources as part of your team is strategic to launching your dreams successfully.
You need to know how to hire the right General Contractor and interior designer.
Having the well-matched and professional resources on your team can get you well on your way in your building process.
Golden Rule-Key 5 Live in Financial Integrity Maintaining financial integrity is the key to sustaining honor, stability and strength in your relationship throughout your remodel or building undertaking.
Your money beliefs and styles influence your relationship and building project.
Golden Rule-Key 6Expect the Unexpected Even when a project is initiated at a time when you're free to devote what is needed, life can intrude on our plans.
Learning to move through unexpected life events such as death and grief, injuries and even some "nice" surprises is critical to success.
Golden Rule-Key 7 Use Tools to Deal with Stress Stress impacts relationships and the construction process.
Stress can rule the project and ruin the relationship.
Reducing stress will help you keep the love in your relationship.
Celebrating your successes and adding those finishing touches can make it really feel like your home.
These 7 golden rules with keys will help you co-create a clear plan of action for your project, open the door to your new home and promote happiness and fulfillment in your relationship throughout the construction process.
For more in-depth information about the Golden Rules click on link in the resource box.
