So you want to know how to get my boyfriend back... Tell me this, if you are doing these 4 destructive behaviors that is PREVENTING you from ever getting back together with him...

1) Are you apologizing for every single thing?
2) Are you making promises to change for good this time?
3) Are you trying to get him to see that whatever caused the breakup wasn't our fault?
4) Are you even begging him to take you back?

First of all, you need to completely understand this... this is destructive behavior... it is marginalizing the wonderful person that you are... while pushing him away!

Yes, you heard me right... when you become needy and clingy... you actually become less attractive. And not only that... you hurt your own self esteem.

Talk about a double whammy! Stop doing those things and things actually get better. But of course that alone isn't enough...

But I understand... breaking up is hard... emotionally and physically. You are probably experiencing loss of appetite, calling your ex several times a day and constantly checking your cell or emails to see if he returned any of them.

I probably left out a few other behaviors that you are doing but it hurts... really hurts.
But what would you say if I told you that there is a way to get back together with your ex? You see, couples break up and get back together... ALL THE TIME!

And the thing of it is this... getting back together for most folks is "accidental." They got together by accident... Does that make sense to you?

And if you could find the right actions and the right words and the right way to go about rescuing your relationship... You would put it in a bottle so other couples could duplicate it...

Right? Well, a guy who figured it all out did do exactly that and you can find out more by visiting the link in my author's bio.

But for now... I want you to STOP doing the destructive behavior... no matter how painful and how counter-productive it may seem...