How to Know What Men Really Think
Are you confused by what your man is really thinking? Have you tried hard but still can't read his signals? Do you seem to be speaking two entirely different languages? We can help you decipher him! Contrary to popular belief, men are really not that hard to figure out.
In fact, they are pretty straightforward species.
Just remember that no matter how inexpressive or unemotional they seem, men are still human beings.
They have feelings, too - they just can't express it as well as women can.
Here are some of the best-kept issues bugging men.
Understanding these issues can help you decipher him better.
1.
Men are very afraid of rejection.
Because of this fear, a man may not approach you right away even if he is really interested in dating you.
However, if he gauges that having you is worth the humiliation of rejection, then he may go for it.
Usually, though, he needs your help to figure this out.
Give him some indications that you are interested.
Smile at him, at least.
When you speak, look into his eyes.
Keep your body language open.
Make him feel about approaching you without being too aggressive.
If a guy who is showing interest in you suddenly walks away and stops paying attention, you may have given him cues that you do not like him.
2.
Men like attractive women - so play up your assets.
Men are visual by nature.
Their brains are hardwired to look at appealing ladies.
You don't have to be a Penelope Cruz to hold his attention, though.
Just make an effort.
Fix your hair, wear clothes that accentuate what you like best about your body, make sure you smell good, and of course, smile.
Always dress up for him, even if your relationship is no longer new.
3.
Men are conservative when it comes to their wives and girlfriends.
Sure, a drunk bimbo may seem like a good idea for a one-night stand, but when it comes to serious relationships, men are looking for respectable women that they can introduce to their friends and mothers.
Make sure you are always on your best behavior especially during gatherings with his family and close pals.
In fact, they are pretty straightforward species.
Just remember that no matter how inexpressive or unemotional they seem, men are still human beings.
They have feelings, too - they just can't express it as well as women can.
Here are some of the best-kept issues bugging men.
Understanding these issues can help you decipher him better.
1.
Men are very afraid of rejection.
Because of this fear, a man may not approach you right away even if he is really interested in dating you.
However, if he gauges that having you is worth the humiliation of rejection, then he may go for it.
Usually, though, he needs your help to figure this out.
Give him some indications that you are interested.
Smile at him, at least.
When you speak, look into his eyes.
Keep your body language open.
Make him feel about approaching you without being too aggressive.
If a guy who is showing interest in you suddenly walks away and stops paying attention, you may have given him cues that you do not like him.
2.
Men like attractive women - so play up your assets.
Men are visual by nature.
Their brains are hardwired to look at appealing ladies.
You don't have to be a Penelope Cruz to hold his attention, though.
Just make an effort.
Fix your hair, wear clothes that accentuate what you like best about your body, make sure you smell good, and of course, smile.
Always dress up for him, even if your relationship is no longer new.
3.
Men are conservative when it comes to their wives and girlfriends.
Sure, a drunk bimbo may seem like a good idea for a one-night stand, but when it comes to serious relationships, men are looking for respectable women that they can introduce to their friends and mothers.
Make sure you are always on your best behavior especially during gatherings with his family and close pals.
