Your boyfriend just broke up with you, and now you're searching the internet for tips on how to get him back, right? You've hit a jackpot of tips- there is definitely still hope for you to get your ex back, even if the breakup was his idea and he seems to be over you! Here are some ways to cope in the beginning: 1.
The breakup needs to be confirmed.
Either write him a letter and let him know that you agree and decided this is for the best (especially if you cried and begged him to stay) or agree with him in person if you still have the chance to.
As long as he knows you are on board, he will let his defenses down and feel more relaxed about being around you again.
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Does he need some space? Evaluate how you were acting before the break up happened.
Did he say you were clingy and smothering him? Is he afraid of commitment because the seriousness of the relationship was too intense? Give him the space he needs.
If you want to get your ex back, it has to be his idea and it needs to occur naturally.
Don't mass text message him or stalk him! The first few weeks should definitely be manipulation free.
You can get your ex back if you let this process happen, drama-free! 3.
Make a list for yourself about the things you wish would have been different between you two.
Make sure to include your personal faults; everyone has them! Maybe you talked too much about marriage- you can change that pattern and it could make the world of difference! Don't show him the list, of course, but work on the things you can do differently for when you get your ex back.