Getting Back Together After a Break Up - Making Up With My Ex
After a breakup, it is easy to think about getting back together, after all, you did share a lot of things together and you both had lots of dreams and plans.
So what happened? When things go 'south' with your relationship, how can you go about making up with your ex, and will it even work? Is it something that both of you want to do, or is just a one sided desire? If you are serious about getting back with your ex, here is where you begin: If both of you are interested in getting back together then it is most likely that this will work out for you.
Be aware, that in order to overcome the issues that caused the break up or separation in the first place, both of you will need to make a firm commitment and have a strong desire to work through them.
However, if you are the only one really interested in getting back together after a break up then you may need to consider that the relationship is over for good.
At the very least you would have a long hard battle ahead of you, though it can be done.
Bottom line is that it will take a total commitment from both of you to make this work, and to shore up your relationship so that it is stronger than before.
Sometimes it can be an accumulation of lots of little things and the inability to cope or accept them that drive a couple temporarily apart, and it takes a willingness to address these openly and honestly to get past the 'bump' in your 'relationship road'.
It requires some give and take and even being able to admit that you were wrong - this takes a certain amount of courage and a building up of trust between you.
There is no need to try to justify what you did wrong, just simply admitting it, forgiving each other, learning from it and moving on.
It will take effort on both your parts to forgive your own and each other's mistakes, and overcome the things that separated you, but it can be done if you know how and both agree to give it a go.
Be careful in the amount of effort each of you puts into making up.
You both need to give this 100%.
If you think that the other needs to do more work, or you let the other person do more work then getting back together is less likely to work.
As the song goes " it takes twooo, baby...
", it took the two of you to get the relationship going and it will the two of you to fix and rebuild your relationship.
Having a good satisfying relationship takes effort, even when all is going well, so it is going to take more effort to make up with your ex.
If you are the only one wanting this to happen then your road will be an uphill one and will require a lot of hard work, and at the end of the day, it may still be too late.
Sadly, if you both do not want this then it may be that this dream that will die...
It is also important to know that when you have both decided to get back together, that having support from family and friends can help.
Having their encouragement can improve your chances of successfully getting back together after a break up.
So what happened? When things go 'south' with your relationship, how can you go about making up with your ex, and will it even work? Is it something that both of you want to do, or is just a one sided desire? If you are serious about getting back with your ex, here is where you begin: If both of you are interested in getting back together then it is most likely that this will work out for you.
Be aware, that in order to overcome the issues that caused the break up or separation in the first place, both of you will need to make a firm commitment and have a strong desire to work through them.
However, if you are the only one really interested in getting back together after a break up then you may need to consider that the relationship is over for good.
At the very least you would have a long hard battle ahead of you, though it can be done.
Bottom line is that it will take a total commitment from both of you to make this work, and to shore up your relationship so that it is stronger than before.
Sometimes it can be an accumulation of lots of little things and the inability to cope or accept them that drive a couple temporarily apart, and it takes a willingness to address these openly and honestly to get past the 'bump' in your 'relationship road'.
It requires some give and take and even being able to admit that you were wrong - this takes a certain amount of courage and a building up of trust between you.
There is no need to try to justify what you did wrong, just simply admitting it, forgiving each other, learning from it and moving on.
It will take effort on both your parts to forgive your own and each other's mistakes, and overcome the things that separated you, but it can be done if you know how and both agree to give it a go.
Be careful in the amount of effort each of you puts into making up.
You both need to give this 100%.
If you think that the other needs to do more work, or you let the other person do more work then getting back together is less likely to work.
As the song goes " it takes twooo, baby...
", it took the two of you to get the relationship going and it will the two of you to fix and rebuild your relationship.
Having a good satisfying relationship takes effort, even when all is going well, so it is going to take more effort to make up with your ex.
If you are the only one wanting this to happen then your road will be an uphill one and will require a lot of hard work, and at the end of the day, it may still be too late.
Sadly, if you both do not want this then it may be that this dream that will die...
It is also important to know that when you have both decided to get back together, that having support from family and friends can help.
Having their encouragement can improve your chances of successfully getting back together after a break up.
