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What Happens When You Make a Woman the Center of Your Life?

Women frequently feel proud about the attention being given to them by their men.
They will gladly extol the hardships their mates went through just to please her.
They want the world to be envious at how much a man can give whether it is effort, money or time.
This is very true at the start of a relationship.
When they usually spend more time with their friends talking about what you did to make her happy today.
Giggles and amazement will fill their lives at this point.
However as the relationship progresses and the time spent which each other increases, the woman will start getting distracted.
Normally a man will relish his accomplishment in capturing the desires of his heart.
And bathe himself with a woman's presence, love and affection.
As the relationship matures from the initial feel good wave into the steady committed partnership, the woman will begin to feel disappointed and irritated if the man keeps putting her on a pedestal.
Gifts and flowers will no longer be special.
Dinner dates that used to give her butterflies will be a platform for criticisms against their men.
The man usually gets confused reacting in a way that will give more to his partner.
More time, bigger gifts and being a more obedient partner are ways men try to please their women.
As time goes by women who are with men who make them the center of their lives become regretful.
They start to nag and complain about everything.
They begin to pile up remorse as the man scrambles to find a way to get her to be blooming once again.
Soon men give up and try to maintain the relationship for as long as they can.
This usually ends up in two ways.
First, they settle into roles which are deemed socially acceptable but are never happy in each other's presence anymore.
Examples of this are wives and husbands who criticize each other a lot and spend time with their peers talking about how terrible it is to be with the other.
Second is by breaking up.
If married they end up divorcing each other.
Then the cycle repeats itself this time with another set of partners.
Between break a break up a man may start seeking out affairs in order for his old approach to work.
Make a woman feel special by making her the center of his life.
Needless to say this creates more complications and will hurt him, his partner and the new woman.
This usually is what happens when a man tries his best to please a woman and make her the center of his life.
It is unromantic but sadly happens in almost all relationships.

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