So, your friends have been jumping your case lately.
All you talk about is your ex and you wish they would come back to you.
They keep saying give your ex space.
They are still extremely upset and just do not want to see you.
But, if you give your ex time, how long will it take? First, think of your ex.
You know them pretty well.
How long does it usually take them to get over something if there mad and upset? Now, take it times ten because of the breakup and then you start getting some understanding of what they are going through.
Some people can hold hurt and a grudge for months and even a life time.
Depending on the depth of the hurt and pain, you may never get them back.
Or maybe it is vice versa and you are hurt worse than your ex because it was something they have done.
Can you ever forgive them ever for all the mean things that were said or done? Can you forgive them for the breakup? Do you understand what happened? Just time take over and start the healing for both of you.
Slowly start moving on with your life and reflect on everything in your life with your ex.
Think of all the good and bad.
Damage can be permanently be done if you try to rush back into the relationship because there is no time for healing.
While you are doing this, your ex is doing the same thing.
They are healing from the hurt and pain.
They will be able to feel whole again.
No matter how long it takes, if you love your ex, you need to stand by and wait until they are ready to come back to you.