How to get Your Family back after Cheating
Life is a series of unintended consequences. One big one is that your wife isn't the only person who has the potential to be hurt when you cheat. Cheating isn't a guarantee that you'll lose your family.
If you're caught cheating though you can pretty much bet that you've put your family at risk. That is, of course, unless you have a very understanding wife. Most wives however are not quite that understanding.
If you've lost your family as a result of an affair only to discover that the grass was so very much not greener on the other side or with the other woman you have some tough decisions ahead of you. The first thing you need to decide is where you're going to begin. You must now not only to seek forgiveness from your wife but also anyone else in the family, who was hurt as a result of your actions.
It won't be easy. It shouldn't be easy. If you get the second chance you seek remember how tough the "road to redemption" is and make sure you don't need to travel that way a second time.
So, where do you begin working on that happily ever after you've heard so much about for your family after you've been caught cheating?
Start with the basics. Make things right with your wife. Apologize to her. Make your apology sincere and heartfelt. Ask for her forgiveness. Answer her questions honestly. Then, use what you've learned about yourself, your wife, and your marriage throughout all of this to ask for a second chance.
Don't expect miracles though. A little time might need to pass before she's willing to entertain the idea of giving your marriage a second chance. You're never going to be able to make things right with your family or get your family back though until you win her back.
The good thing is that she probably hasn't stopped loving you yet. You have her heart on your side. You just need to take a step back in time and remember what you did to sweep her off her feet the first time around. Start over and win her heart one step at a time all over again.
Many women are hopeless romantics. Be the epitome of romance. Remind her why she fell in love with you to begin with and show her that charming man she knew way back when instead of the "Al Bundy" side she's been seeing lately.
In other words, accentuate the positives about your relationship. Build your new marriage on the love rather than the things that ripped your relationship to shreds. You'll have your family back in no time.
If you're caught cheating though you can pretty much bet that you've put your family at risk. That is, of course, unless you have a very understanding wife. Most wives however are not quite that understanding.
If you've lost your family as a result of an affair only to discover that the grass was so very much not greener on the other side or with the other woman you have some tough decisions ahead of you. The first thing you need to decide is where you're going to begin. You must now not only to seek forgiveness from your wife but also anyone else in the family, who was hurt as a result of your actions.
It won't be easy. It shouldn't be easy. If you get the second chance you seek remember how tough the "road to redemption" is and make sure you don't need to travel that way a second time.
So, where do you begin working on that happily ever after you've heard so much about for your family after you've been caught cheating?
Start with the basics. Make things right with your wife. Apologize to her. Make your apology sincere and heartfelt. Ask for her forgiveness. Answer her questions honestly. Then, use what you've learned about yourself, your wife, and your marriage throughout all of this to ask for a second chance.
Don't expect miracles though. A little time might need to pass before she's willing to entertain the idea of giving your marriage a second chance. You're never going to be able to make things right with your family or get your family back though until you win her back.
The good thing is that she probably hasn't stopped loving you yet. You have her heart on your side. You just need to take a step back in time and remember what you did to sweep her off her feet the first time around. Start over and win her heart one step at a time all over again.
Many women are hopeless romantics. Be the epitome of romance. Remind her why she fell in love with you to begin with and show her that charming man she knew way back when instead of the "Al Bundy" side she's been seeing lately.
In other words, accentuate the positives about your relationship. Build your new marriage on the love rather than the things that ripped your relationship to shreds. You'll have your family back in no time.
