Ways to Attract Girls
There are many ways to attract girls.
And I honestly recommend that you investigate them all; however, I think that the law of attraction offers you an interesting view.
So, I'm going to talk about a few ways to attract girls and end with the law of attraction, which I hope you'll check out in further detail.
First, there's the classic way: money, power, fame.
Many people use this method to attract girls, only it's rather silly.
And it can lead to frivolous uses of money.
I think this method holds so much sway in our culture because people put so much stock in evolutionary psychology: guys think that women really just want a guy that can take care of them.
And while some women do, most don't.
In fact, I know several women who date and marry guys like that who are so bored and just need someone with passion that they'd have an affair with a broke poet who just made them feel something in a heartbeat.
Also, there are plenty of guys who have money, power, and fame, and still can't get a date.
In other words, this focus on money, power, and fame is stupid.
Stop it.
(This is the major "block" that men have: "women won't like me because I'm not xyz enough.
") Second, there's the seduction methods.
These are generally steeped in NLP and are very, very effective once you can use them.
As an NLP practitioner, I know that technology can be used to make any number of changes in a person's mind states, ideas, feelings, etc.
rather immediately.
And with it, it's not very difficult to say seduce a married women you met at the bar (but again, find the right ones and they're already looking for it...
).
The only thing is that this takes years of practice, and if you're like me, by the time that you're really good at it, you'd rather use the technology to find someone you really like than to just get girls into bed (and it can be a dangerous proposition to use those methods while focusing on one person because not only can you scare them off, you lose much of your power if you're a seducer that doesn't seduce women; in other words, it'll re-instantiate the one-itis problem).
The only way to use their methods fully is to seduce as many women as possible, and if you find a good one, then stop sleeping with others; however, by that time, it's so easy to seduce women, you probably won't want to stop for one.
Though, if you're not looking for love, then who cares? Third, there's the law of attraction.
This method is a spiritual-based teaching that argues if you change the ways that you think and feel about the world, then you'll necessarily change how your life is in the world because the universe aligns with you and gives you your goals.
I'm highly skeptical of the universal alignment stuff; however, I think about it as "existential alignment".
In other words, I think the general model of "whether you think you can or you think you can't, you will" is right; however, I think it works because of faith, persistence, and determination.
If you believe you can do something that you're determined to do and you know you'll do no matter what, then you're going to give that goal everything that you've got; however, if you think badly about it, you're going to half-ass it at best.
Relationships work out just like this: if you have faith you can find the person you're looking for and are persistent and determined, then you'll probably find her; however, if you don't have faith and you "give up", then you'll probably "settle"--and you know how that works out...
And I honestly recommend that you investigate them all; however, I think that the law of attraction offers you an interesting view.
So, I'm going to talk about a few ways to attract girls and end with the law of attraction, which I hope you'll check out in further detail.
First, there's the classic way: money, power, fame.
Many people use this method to attract girls, only it's rather silly.
And it can lead to frivolous uses of money.
I think this method holds so much sway in our culture because people put so much stock in evolutionary psychology: guys think that women really just want a guy that can take care of them.
And while some women do, most don't.
In fact, I know several women who date and marry guys like that who are so bored and just need someone with passion that they'd have an affair with a broke poet who just made them feel something in a heartbeat.
Also, there are plenty of guys who have money, power, and fame, and still can't get a date.
In other words, this focus on money, power, and fame is stupid.
Stop it.
(This is the major "block" that men have: "women won't like me because I'm not xyz enough.
") Second, there's the seduction methods.
These are generally steeped in NLP and are very, very effective once you can use them.
As an NLP practitioner, I know that technology can be used to make any number of changes in a person's mind states, ideas, feelings, etc.
rather immediately.
And with it, it's not very difficult to say seduce a married women you met at the bar (but again, find the right ones and they're already looking for it...
).
The only thing is that this takes years of practice, and if you're like me, by the time that you're really good at it, you'd rather use the technology to find someone you really like than to just get girls into bed (and it can be a dangerous proposition to use those methods while focusing on one person because not only can you scare them off, you lose much of your power if you're a seducer that doesn't seduce women; in other words, it'll re-instantiate the one-itis problem).
The only way to use their methods fully is to seduce as many women as possible, and if you find a good one, then stop sleeping with others; however, by that time, it's so easy to seduce women, you probably won't want to stop for one.
Though, if you're not looking for love, then who cares? Third, there's the law of attraction.
This method is a spiritual-based teaching that argues if you change the ways that you think and feel about the world, then you'll necessarily change how your life is in the world because the universe aligns with you and gives you your goals.
I'm highly skeptical of the universal alignment stuff; however, I think about it as "existential alignment".
In other words, I think the general model of "whether you think you can or you think you can't, you will" is right; however, I think it works because of faith, persistence, and determination.
If you believe you can do something that you're determined to do and you know you'll do no matter what, then you're going to give that goal everything that you've got; however, if you think badly about it, you're going to half-ass it at best.
Relationships work out just like this: if you have faith you can find the person you're looking for and are persistent and determined, then you'll probably find her; however, if you don't have faith and you "give up", then you'll probably "settle"--and you know how that works out...
