How to Save Your Marriage When Everything Seems To Be Said And Done?
There is not a shred of doubt about the despicable state of your current marriage. But the best way to save your marriage is to stop blaming your ill fate and to get back to work to make amends for everything that has gone terribly wrong in the past few months or years.
Saving a relationship demands you to be able to effectively pick any signs of trouble being signaled from your partner. Usually a number of symptoms arise before a couple calls it quits and perhaps the most explicit symptom of the things to come is lack of communication or rather having too much of purposeless chat growing up in nasty arguments.
If the above mentioned signal rings any bells in your ears then you better tidy up. A communication gap pops up between two partners when they share few things in common. You or your partner must have felt many times that they simply do not have any substantial issue to discuss with you. And if incidentally one of you thinks that there is a pressing issue that needs to be discussed, either the other partner is (or acts) too busy or he or she is simply away from home.
Another major symptom of a troubled marriage is obliteration of a mutual feeling of friendliness and love, instead both partners start competing with each other over petty issues. If you have experienced such a phenomenon then you need to know that you do not have too much time to save your marriage!
However, you also have to recognize the fact that no marriage goes on without a misadventure at some point. If you and your partner are still willing to continue living together then a few steps in the right direction can set the ball rolling for you.
A good starting point is to admit to your partner that perhaps your ego forced you to defend your mistakes instead of rectifying them. This will ease out the tension in the air. You also need to find a new manner of communication, one that both of you are comfortable and free to use. If you and your partner have the habit of arguing at certain times in a day or in a certain room in your house, then you need to change the place and timing of communication.
You can easily save your marriage if you put a hold on your relationship's downward slide. And it always helps if a couple shares mutual respect and gives each other enough space for this purpose.
Saving a relationship demands you to be able to effectively pick any signs of trouble being signaled from your partner. Usually a number of symptoms arise before a couple calls it quits and perhaps the most explicit symptom of the things to come is lack of communication or rather having too much of purposeless chat growing up in nasty arguments.
If the above mentioned signal rings any bells in your ears then you better tidy up. A communication gap pops up between two partners when they share few things in common. You or your partner must have felt many times that they simply do not have any substantial issue to discuss with you. And if incidentally one of you thinks that there is a pressing issue that needs to be discussed, either the other partner is (or acts) too busy or he or she is simply away from home.
Another major symptom of a troubled marriage is obliteration of a mutual feeling of friendliness and love, instead both partners start competing with each other over petty issues. If you have experienced such a phenomenon then you need to know that you do not have too much time to save your marriage!
However, you also have to recognize the fact that no marriage goes on without a misadventure at some point. If you and your partner are still willing to continue living together then a few steps in the right direction can set the ball rolling for you.
A good starting point is to admit to your partner that perhaps your ego forced you to defend your mistakes instead of rectifying them. This will ease out the tension in the air. You also need to find a new manner of communication, one that both of you are comfortable and free to use. If you and your partner have the habit of arguing at certain times in a day or in a certain room in your house, then you need to change the place and timing of communication.
You can easily save your marriage if you put a hold on your relationship's downward slide. And it always helps if a couple shares mutual respect and gives each other enough space for this purpose.
