Important things to know about Parenting - Part 1
Parenting or to become parents is a great responsibility when partners decide to mate to give birth to a child. The state of mind of both the partners matter when it comes to mating which will give birth to a new being. The kind of ideas, thoughts or images partners have for the new being going to come in their life will influence the new being.
When your wife is conceived, her state of mind is very important throughout the 9 months of pregnancy. So keep her happy besides fulfilling her wishes will help in developing a healthy baby. The environment in which the mother dwells plays a major role in keep her state of mind healthy. In the 1st trisemester, good care needs to be taken for the mother while climbing stairs or lifting heavy things. Traveling on bikes or auto rickshaw is to be avoided.
In 2nd trisemester, one can take up all the household activities which can aid in having a normal delivery. If household thing is taken care by other members of a family you can do exercise as suggested by physiotherapist. 3rd trisemester one has to be careful again.
On the due date, when the baby is delivered, the first 6 hours is very important for the baby as the baby comes in contact with the outside world. Mother should hold the baby close so that the baby gets the warmth of the mother. The way a baby is treated by the nurse, doctor and then by the close members of the family after delivery plays an important role in baby's life.
Any negative comments said about the baby like the looks, color etc when the baby is there can affect the psychology of the baby for the entire life as the baby is very receptive to the things happening around.
There are different phases of development a child goes through and both parents should actively participate in the child's growth.
From first year to six years the baby should treated like a king. In the sense that all the wishes of the baby should be fulfilled for the baby to develop a confidence that anything and everything can be achieved by the baby as the baby grows up and becomes matured enough to understand take decisions.
From six years to fourteen years, the child should be treated like a prince, where he or she is taught to do things on his or her own to develop his or her individuality and overall personality of the child.
From fourteen years of age, the child should be treated as a friend were both the parents should have proper communication from time to time to help the child understand and express the things he or she is going through.
The way both parents communicate with each other and share their responsibility has a great impact on the child in connecting with the family and in general to the world around it. If parents fight or argue with each other in front of the child, it would create a negative impact on the mind of the child and the child would feel left alone and lonely in this world.
When your wife is conceived, her state of mind is very important throughout the 9 months of pregnancy. So keep her happy besides fulfilling her wishes will help in developing a healthy baby. The environment in which the mother dwells plays a major role in keep her state of mind healthy. In the 1st trisemester, good care needs to be taken for the mother while climbing stairs or lifting heavy things. Traveling on bikes or auto rickshaw is to be avoided.
In 2nd trisemester, one can take up all the household activities which can aid in having a normal delivery. If household thing is taken care by other members of a family you can do exercise as suggested by physiotherapist. 3rd trisemester one has to be careful again.
On the due date, when the baby is delivered, the first 6 hours is very important for the baby as the baby comes in contact with the outside world. Mother should hold the baby close so that the baby gets the warmth of the mother. The way a baby is treated by the nurse, doctor and then by the close members of the family after delivery plays an important role in baby's life.
Any negative comments said about the baby like the looks, color etc when the baby is there can affect the psychology of the baby for the entire life as the baby is very receptive to the things happening around.
There are different phases of development a child goes through and both parents should actively participate in the child's growth.
From first year to six years the baby should treated like a king. In the sense that all the wishes of the baby should be fulfilled for the baby to develop a confidence that anything and everything can be achieved by the baby as the baby grows up and becomes matured enough to understand take decisions.
From six years to fourteen years, the child should be treated like a prince, where he or she is taught to do things on his or her own to develop his or her individuality and overall personality of the child.
From fourteen years of age, the child should be treated as a friend were both the parents should have proper communication from time to time to help the child understand and express the things he or she is going through.
The way both parents communicate with each other and share their responsibility has a great impact on the child in connecting with the family and in general to the world around it. If parents fight or argue with each other in front of the child, it would create a negative impact on the mind of the child and the child would feel left alone and lonely in this world.