I Want Him Back - What Can I Do?
You're probably thinking, "I want him back, what can I do?" The best way to burn bridges is by being unpleasant about the entire thing. Always leave things at a friendly level so you can start where you left off.
Leave things at a positive note
You may not always agree with your EX and you might even be against the whole idea of breaking up. However, you have to learn to accept how things are. Instead of fighting the wave, just follow it. Be diplomatic about ending things.
Enjoy some time apart
Resist from the temptation to pop by and find an excuse to visit, or hang out at your ex's favorite haunts. Instead, pointedly avoid all contact with your ex and focus on yourself.
Engage in endeavors focused on self-improvement
Now is the time to focus on things that you want to do for yourself. Don't think about your ex for a bit. The right time for that will come. Do all the things that you have always wanted to do. Travel. Pursue an old hobby. Enroll in that extra course or MBA. Participate in work seminars that can help you increase your income bracket. Only when you're ready should you even start appearing in your ex's radar. By then, you will be so successful and happy with your own accomplishments, you will have no time to bear grudges over past differences. You will also have that added confidence you need to face your ex in firm footing again.
Keep the lines of communication open
Make your ex feel comfortable enough to still want to spend time with you. Go ahead and be friendly. Just make sure that you don't overdo it and come off too eager or else your ex will just take you for granted. Treat friendship with your ex like a favorite dessert. Do everything in moderation. Too much of a good thing can make you both sick of each other.
Keep your life secret for now
Discuss all sorts of things-world news, current events, politics, anything. Just don't open up when it comes to the things that you have been up to. Leave a layer of mystery about you and hold you ex's interest captive. It won't be long till you guys are back in each other's arms.
I want him back, what can I do?
Click Here for step-by-step instructions on how to make him want you back. Find out exactly what to say and what to do to get him back even if it seems impossible!
Leave things at a positive note
You may not always agree with your EX and you might even be against the whole idea of breaking up. However, you have to learn to accept how things are. Instead of fighting the wave, just follow it. Be diplomatic about ending things.
Enjoy some time apart
Resist from the temptation to pop by and find an excuse to visit, or hang out at your ex's favorite haunts. Instead, pointedly avoid all contact with your ex and focus on yourself.
Engage in endeavors focused on self-improvement
Now is the time to focus on things that you want to do for yourself. Don't think about your ex for a bit. The right time for that will come. Do all the things that you have always wanted to do. Travel. Pursue an old hobby. Enroll in that extra course or MBA. Participate in work seminars that can help you increase your income bracket. Only when you're ready should you even start appearing in your ex's radar. By then, you will be so successful and happy with your own accomplishments, you will have no time to bear grudges over past differences. You will also have that added confidence you need to face your ex in firm footing again.
Keep the lines of communication open
Make your ex feel comfortable enough to still want to spend time with you. Go ahead and be friendly. Just make sure that you don't overdo it and come off too eager or else your ex will just take you for granted. Treat friendship with your ex like a favorite dessert. Do everything in moderation. Too much of a good thing can make you both sick of each other.
Keep your life secret for now
Discuss all sorts of things-world news, current events, politics, anything. Just don't open up when it comes to the things that you have been up to. Leave a layer of mystery about you and hold you ex's interest captive. It won't be long till you guys are back in each other's arms.
I want him back, what can I do?
Click Here for step-by-step instructions on how to make him want you back. Find out exactly what to say and what to do to get him back even if it seems impossible!
