Get Back Your Girlfriend – 3 simple steps that will get you closer to your ex
So, you want to get back your ex girlfriend? Maybe you think it’s impossible and that she’s already someone else?
The thought of your ex-girlfriend with another man is unbearable and therefore, you should act fast, if you want her back.
In this article, we’ll look at the 3 first things you should do, if you want to get back with your ex.
#1 – Why did you break up?
First, take some time to consider why you guys split up. There isn’t much idea in getting back together if you’re going to split again in a few weeks.
Think about these things and then decide if you want to change and become a better person. I know you don’t carry all the blame yourself, but you cannot change your ex girlfriend can you?
#2 – Distance yourself
The next thing you want to do, is to giver your ex some space. In other words, don’t call her all the time or be around her house.
Give her the opportunity to miss you. In the meanwhile, you should spend some time working on your own life.
#3 – Don’t be her friend
Finally, you don’t want to be her friend. This is the step where most men mess up.
Say she calls you and ask you to help her do something… Most men would stop by and help her with the stuff.
Now, this is a really bad idea, because all it does, is to tell her that you are okey by being her friend. And you’re not.
If you don’t believe me, try to think about this:
Do you think she’ll still be your friend when she gets a new boyfriend or do you think he’ll move in with her and sleep in your old bed, while you get left out in the cold?
The thought of your ex-girlfriend with another man is unbearable and therefore, you should act fast, if you want her back.
In this article, we’ll look at the 3 first things you should do, if you want to get back with your ex.
#1 – Why did you break up?
First, take some time to consider why you guys split up. There isn’t much idea in getting back together if you’re going to split again in a few weeks.
- Did any of you cheat on the other
- Did some major changes happen recently (lost your job, someone died etc.)
- Have your relationship been broken for a while
- Did any of you do things on purpose to make the other person sad
Think about these things and then decide if you want to change and become a better person. I know you don’t carry all the blame yourself, but you cannot change your ex girlfriend can you?
#2 – Distance yourself
The next thing you want to do, is to giver your ex some space. In other words, don’t call her all the time or be around her house.
Give her the opportunity to miss you. In the meanwhile, you should spend some time working on your own life.
- Become a better person
- Start seeing some new people
- Get out of the house
- Figure out what your dreams and goals are
#3 – Don’t be her friend
Finally, you don’t want to be her friend. This is the step where most men mess up.
Say she calls you and ask you to help her do something… Most men would stop by and help her with the stuff.
Now, this is a really bad idea, because all it does, is to tell her that you are okey by being her friend. And you’re not.
If you don’t believe me, try to think about this:
Do you think she’ll still be your friend when she gets a new boyfriend or do you think he’ll move in with her and sleep in your old bed, while you get left out in the cold?
