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Marriage Relationship Advice - How To Make Time For Sex When Your Become Parents

You probably already know that your relationship is not the same once you became parents.
All couples begin their live in bliss when first married just to find out that things change after children.
You knew that having children with your loving spouse would make your family complete.
This may true, but what happened to your love life after was hard to take and you didn't even see it come.
Having a marriage introduced you to many compromises you have ever thought possible, but you forged ahead and created a union that works for you and your spouse.
Now that the children are here, you are devastated and no longer have time for your partner or they no longer have time for you.
One of you are rather busy or too exhausted to make any magic happen underneath the sheets.
If you still want to have sex after having your children that's a good sign.
Your past the really hard issues.
If trying to have sex and organizing some time together to enjoy it.
Read further for some helpful and friendly advice.
How To Make Time For Sex I want you to hang in there with me while I help you understand a few things about getting your romantic juices flowing.
Your were in a relationship with your spouse as a couple before you became parents.
Make time to reconnect by spending quality time when your together.
Reconnecting is making a decision to work on your marriage and love life.
  • Decorate your bedroom for relaxation and comfort.
    A romantic setting is always good to enhance the mood.
  • Compliment each other in front of others.
  • Take over your spouses chores when they are extremely tired or help.
My point for this is for you to remember to always consider the added stress of parenthood and make extra allowances to consider your partners place.
  • Set up a regular date night schedule and treat it like you do your important bills.
  • Get a reliable babysitter.
    You children need a break from you too, plus a happy parent is a great parent.
    Getting away without your child/children will help you as a couple to experience romance and adult time away from the kids.
  • Make phone calls and text message to catch on the days activities.
    Take time to find out about each others day.
    Staying connected during the day will keep you in the loop at home.
Being parents is separate from being in a romantic relationship.
Both sides have to be worked on independently.

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