Three Lethal Mistakes Every Woman Makes in a Relationship
Every woman in history has probably made at least one of these mistakes in an otherwise healthy relationship.
These alone will not break a relationship, but often they come mangled together in a slew of romantic sewage.
Do not make these mistakes.
Please.
Without further ado, let me explain the three lethal mistakes every woman makes in a relationship.
Firstly, and most commonly, is avoiding these mistakes.
Most women will try consciously to avoid them, yet unconsciously they persistently make them.
The way to make sure you do not make them is easy: THINK BEFORE YOU SPEAK! Just run every sentence you are about to say again in your head.
It will not make you look slow- if anything it could make you seem more intelligent and confident.
Most people talk to fast when they speak.
It shows nervousness and lack of confidence in what you say.
So slowing down and thinking will help your relationship out a lot.
This can be applied to any social situation.
Secondly, talking about the future is a no- no! I'm sorry but just don't go there until you have been together a long time.
Live in the now! A good rule of thumb is to take however long you have been together, divide it by two, and only talk that far ahead.
For example, if you have been together 6 months, then only talk about the next three months, and if you have been together a year then only talk ahead 6 months maximum.
This prevents the male feeling asphyxiated.
We love girls that live in the moment.
You can talk about your own future plans, just don't include us! Lastly, checking up on us all the time really does grind our gears together! Calling every two flippin' minutes to ask where we are, who we are with, what we are doing etc.
is really annoying.
If you must know, then at least disguise it well! Call and ask if we are free to go over to yours.
If we are busy and say no, then act slightly disappointed and ask why.
We will tell you.
Always act like you are happy for us to be with whomever, and whenever.
Do not worry; cheating is not as common as you think.
Not if you have a good relationship anyway.
Let us feel free and independent.
Remember though: we can check up on you any time! Only kidding.
Honest.
These alone will not break a relationship, but often they come mangled together in a slew of romantic sewage.
Do not make these mistakes.
Please.
Without further ado, let me explain the three lethal mistakes every woman makes in a relationship.
Firstly, and most commonly, is avoiding these mistakes.
Most women will try consciously to avoid them, yet unconsciously they persistently make them.
The way to make sure you do not make them is easy: THINK BEFORE YOU SPEAK! Just run every sentence you are about to say again in your head.
It will not make you look slow- if anything it could make you seem more intelligent and confident.
Most people talk to fast when they speak.
It shows nervousness and lack of confidence in what you say.
So slowing down and thinking will help your relationship out a lot.
This can be applied to any social situation.
Secondly, talking about the future is a no- no! I'm sorry but just don't go there until you have been together a long time.
Live in the now! A good rule of thumb is to take however long you have been together, divide it by two, and only talk that far ahead.
For example, if you have been together 6 months, then only talk about the next three months, and if you have been together a year then only talk ahead 6 months maximum.
This prevents the male feeling asphyxiated.
We love girls that live in the moment.
You can talk about your own future plans, just don't include us! Lastly, checking up on us all the time really does grind our gears together! Calling every two flippin' minutes to ask where we are, who we are with, what we are doing etc.
is really annoying.
If you must know, then at least disguise it well! Call and ask if we are free to go over to yours.
If we are busy and say no, then act slightly disappointed and ask why.
We will tell you.
Always act like you are happy for us to be with whomever, and whenever.
Do not worry; cheating is not as common as you think.
Not if you have a good relationship anyway.
Let us feel free and independent.
Remember though: we can check up on you any time! Only kidding.
Honest.
