4 Ways To Get Your Girlfriend Back Without Losing Your Self Respect
Are you losing hope and thinking you can't get your girlfriend back? Don't fall into the same trap that I have fallen into. Don't feel bad; most guys react the same way in this situation. More than likely you are doing the wrong things which make your ex relief that she broke off with you.
Instead of doing what you thought is logical, follow the simple tips here:
Remain Calm!
You could be busy with other stuff and not paid enough attention to her. You can't connect with each other and you started to argue over small matters. It has gone up to a point where she can't take it anymore and she left. You didn't feel anything initially, but then reality sets in and you started to panic. You ended up calling her every day, sending one email after another, and basically turned into a stalker before you realized it.
No woman in her right mind is going to go back to a guy who's hunting her. Your best bet is to recollect yourself and leave her alone for a few days. Then only try to contact her. If she doesn't respond, move on to the next step, which is??
Contact her friends.
This may come as a surprise to you. It was already hard to impress her friends when you were together, let alone after your relationship with her has turned sour!
Unfortunately, though, when it comes to getting your girlfriend back, these are exactly the people you need to be talking to because they have the most power to sway your ex. If you can tell them your side of the story and get some understanding from them, they may be willing to say a few good words in front of your ex girlfriend.
Stay Attractive!
It is normal for all of us, men as well as women, to ignore our looks when we are unhappy or depressed, especially when we have broken up with our partners. You may forget to change for a few days or may not shave. This is a typical no-no. I know it's hard, but you no matter how bad you feel, take care of yourself. That means you will need to make sure you take care of your personal hygiene and health. Eat and sleep well. There are many reasons why you have to do that, one is that you will feel better and secondly, your girlfriend will not look down on you and think that it was right to leave.
Be Open!
When you have the opportunity to finally meet up with her, you must know how to communicate with her. Part of that means explaining what you were thinking when you had the fight that almost ended the relationship.
It can be very difficult to open yourself up and expose your deepest problems or feelings. However at times it is best to tell the truth and be frank with her on the problems you may have, for example the stress that you felt at work or other problems which may have contributed to the breakup. Admit your mistakes if any.
Instead of doing what you thought is logical, follow the simple tips here:
Remain Calm!
You could be busy with other stuff and not paid enough attention to her. You can't connect with each other and you started to argue over small matters. It has gone up to a point where she can't take it anymore and she left. You didn't feel anything initially, but then reality sets in and you started to panic. You ended up calling her every day, sending one email after another, and basically turned into a stalker before you realized it.
No woman in her right mind is going to go back to a guy who's hunting her. Your best bet is to recollect yourself and leave her alone for a few days. Then only try to contact her. If she doesn't respond, move on to the next step, which is??
Contact her friends.
This may come as a surprise to you. It was already hard to impress her friends when you were together, let alone after your relationship with her has turned sour!
Unfortunately, though, when it comes to getting your girlfriend back, these are exactly the people you need to be talking to because they have the most power to sway your ex. If you can tell them your side of the story and get some understanding from them, they may be willing to say a few good words in front of your ex girlfriend.
Stay Attractive!
It is normal for all of us, men as well as women, to ignore our looks when we are unhappy or depressed, especially when we have broken up with our partners. You may forget to change for a few days or may not shave. This is a typical no-no. I know it's hard, but you no matter how bad you feel, take care of yourself. That means you will need to make sure you take care of your personal hygiene and health. Eat and sleep well. There are many reasons why you have to do that, one is that you will feel better and secondly, your girlfriend will not look down on you and think that it was right to leave.
Be Open!
When you have the opportunity to finally meet up with her, you must know how to communicate with her. Part of that means explaining what you were thinking when you had the fight that almost ended the relationship.
It can be very difficult to open yourself up and expose your deepest problems or feelings. However at times it is best to tell the truth and be frank with her on the problems you may have, for example the stress that you felt at work or other problems which may have contributed to the breakup. Admit your mistakes if any.
