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How to Ask Out a Girl

So how to ask out a girl? It's a tough question that lots of guys want the answer to.
It's really not that hard once you've done it a few times.
I think a lot of the problem is that most guys come in with the wrong mindset.
If you go in thinking going on a date with the girl is going to be really annoying or boring, then you won't have a great success asking the girl out because you will be too worried about what to do on the actual date.
The actual asking of a girl on a date isn't too difficult.
You just have to be fairly casual about it and ask her if you would like to go do something with you in a not so much like friends manner.
It's important that you're not too friendly so she just doesn't think you are trying to be her friend and not that you actually want to be more than friends.
Otherwise, she could get confused (though it's not her fault), and you could run into some problems later.
The actual date should be some place where the both of you can talk and interact like normal so you can get to know each other better without it being very awkward.
Avoid things that cost too much money, and find something that both of you like to do for the most part.
If she says no, don't sweat it.
There are other girls out there, and it's actually helpful that she said no.
Because it lets you know that she was the wrong match, and you can go focus on finding the actual match that's good for you.
It's a lot worse to be with the wrong person and thinking they're right and to find out they are the wrong one, then to have the wrong person say no.
Just trust me on this one.

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