What Men Want No 48: Women Who Let Men Do Things
What men want is a woman who will let them do things.
If you think I'm being unspecific, you're right.
That's because I want to put the emphasis on a particular word in that first sentence.
By writing "things", I'm obviously telling you that whatever you let them do isn't as important as something else that actually happens just prior to them taking action.
I'm talking about the word, "let".
What does let mean? It basically implies that you're giving your man permission to do something.
What's special about you giving your man permission to do something? You're about to find out.
Women who let men do things have authority and respect.
If they have to let them do things, that means that men listen to them and make sure that they aren't taking a step beyond anything that would upset their woman.
For this to work properly however, the man has to "let" the woman do things as well.
She has to respect the man.
Again, like I've mentioned in previous "What Men Want's", there has to be balance in a relationship for it to work out.
If you're not comfortable yet with letting your man do things, that means that you have to work on your self-respect a little bit first.
You have to realise that you have to take control and show that you're worth respecting.
It all starts with saying "no" a few times.
That's when the man asks you to do something.
He will perk up and listen to you more when you do refuse him something.
Work your way up and start asking more from him as well.
This will help us guys because it makes us feel like we're doing more for you (our wife).
We actually want a woman who we can respect and basically serve for the rest of our lives.
If she lets us serve her, that means that she appreciates our presence.
We appreciate that in return and everybody's happy.
So ladies, it all starts with you.
If you want to be in a happier marriage, make sure that you're not only asking for things, but also refusing things from us as well.
That will let us know that you respect yourself, which will cause us to respect you, which will cause us to be more obedient.
This isn't to make us guys sound like dogs, but it's better than seeing a woman who doesn't respect herself being used and wasted thin by a man who doesn't appreciate her.
If you think I'm being unspecific, you're right.
That's because I want to put the emphasis on a particular word in that first sentence.
By writing "things", I'm obviously telling you that whatever you let them do isn't as important as something else that actually happens just prior to them taking action.
I'm talking about the word, "let".
What does let mean? It basically implies that you're giving your man permission to do something.
What's special about you giving your man permission to do something? You're about to find out.
Women who let men do things have authority and respect.
If they have to let them do things, that means that men listen to them and make sure that they aren't taking a step beyond anything that would upset their woman.
For this to work properly however, the man has to "let" the woman do things as well.
She has to respect the man.
Again, like I've mentioned in previous "What Men Want's", there has to be balance in a relationship for it to work out.
If you're not comfortable yet with letting your man do things, that means that you have to work on your self-respect a little bit first.
You have to realise that you have to take control and show that you're worth respecting.
It all starts with saying "no" a few times.
That's when the man asks you to do something.
He will perk up and listen to you more when you do refuse him something.
Work your way up and start asking more from him as well.
This will help us guys because it makes us feel like we're doing more for you (our wife).
We actually want a woman who we can respect and basically serve for the rest of our lives.
If she lets us serve her, that means that she appreciates our presence.
We appreciate that in return and everybody's happy.
So ladies, it all starts with you.
If you want to be in a happier marriage, make sure that you're not only asking for things, but also refusing things from us as well.
That will let us know that you respect yourself, which will cause us to respect you, which will cause us to be more obedient.
This isn't to make us guys sound like dogs, but it's better than seeing a woman who doesn't respect herself being used and wasted thin by a man who doesn't appreciate her.
